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Chinese School Board Anecdotes

Chinese school has been among the very short list of things that my children did not have a choice.  Both children had spent over a decade of Friday evenings in Chinese classes. My older child is in her third year in college, and my younger child will start college this fall.  I am no longer part of their Chinese learning, and I wish they will continue in their own ways.

I attended the School’s Annual General Meeting every year in the past decade.  When my daughter was in the elementary grades, I stayed in the classroom often.  Naturally, I volunteered as room parent. By the time I joined the Board, my children were already in mid grades and I no longer “attend” classes with my child.

For the subsequent five years,  I have been the Curriculum director, the PTA director and the Registrar.   These roles link me to the many perennial events on the school calendar.

The Annual General Meeting marks the beginning of the year.  The attendance is a barometer of parent engagement in their children’s education, and it has been improving.  It is still an aspiration to get close to 100% parents’ attendance.

Chinese New Year (CNY) is always my favorite. Together with Student Council, we always try to make the CNY festive, make it traditional and make it memorable.  We are a Chinese School and Chinese New Year is our way to welcome a New Year. If there is only one event to keep, CNY will be it.

To those who participate in the inter-school ANCCS contests, I deeply admire the hard work of the students and, even more so, their parents and our school teachers in the two months before the April event and on the event day.  

The promotion ceremony marks the end of the year, I get goosebumps to listen to our graduating students making speeches. To graduate, it requires more than a decade of Friday’s evenings in a classroom learning Chinese. I believe many students will look back to see such persistence has shaped their life in some ways.  

Board members are in position to create lasting changes that affect current and future students too.  I remember a few of these changes.

Few know our school used to have a school library with hundreds of books.  We closed our library in 2013. That year, we took out all the books from the school library, and for a few weeks, we displayed the books and let the teachers/parents claim them for free.   Those books deserved to be in better hands than being left alone in our cabinets. I remember the happy faces of the teachers/parents when they picked up their favorite books or books that can help them teach.  

2014 was our school’s 50th anniversary.  We all got pretty busy in the celebration planning.  Our board members, our ex-board members, our ex-principals, and our alumni  joined forces to prepare the yearbook and the anniversary events. It was concluded with a very memorable 50th anniversary dinner.  My daughter, now an art-and-design college student, created 3 short videos to chronicle the school history. Looking at the photos over the years, listening to the interviews of the founder and the many principals, l feel we all owe to those who have built the school platform and have contributed selflessly to Chinese education.  I wish that the 55th anniversary would be equally memorable.

In 2015, we established a new AP class offering to meet the demand of students who want to focus on Mandarinand College Level Chinese.  A few of us on the board spent many extra hours to discuss and debate about it. It was a fun and rewarding time. I would like to thank our AP teacher and our ex-principal for being passionate and selfless to push forward the idea.  In the past two years, a few students graduated from the AP classes with visible improvement in their Mandarin ability, not to mention, they earned good scores in the AP Chinese exam. I wish for more success for the AP class.

We thought hard to strengthen the board members with parents of younger children. We were fortunate that there were some strong additions to the board in the past few years including our current secretary, our current PTA director, and our current Marketing director. 

In 2016, we had fun in learning how to improve the page ranking of our school website.   It was eye-opening in figuring out how to make that happen, and it was lots of learning to use AdWords.   As we strengthen our online presence, more parents find us online, more parents contact us, and more families join our school. It has been very rewarding

In 2017, we revamped our school website to bring it up to the era. I am so impressed with the work done on our new school website.  At the same time,  we took an ambitious effort to transition to online registration and online payment.

Many think of volunteering as activities that take away their time and underestimate the rewards of it.  As Chinese parents, we want to place the children in the best school. Chinese school is among the most reachable way to do something to make their education better.   

Most board members, that I started with, have retired; I am thankful for the foundations that they have built and have lots of fun with the current board members along the journey.   Time has come for my retirement from the board.  It has been good fun and I wish more people can experience what I have been through.

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ADRIFT by Steven Callahan

AdriftAdrift : Seventy-Six Days Lost at Sea  

This book was mentioned in a book on recovery from illness, where one of the patients read this book every single day.   As I finished reading “Adrift”, I understood why the patient read this book as she was bound in her hospital bed.

The book is a first hand account of how the author fought for his life in an inflatable raft after his small sloop capsized only six days from port.  He was lost in the sea for 76 days as his raft floated 1800 miles before finally being rescued by a few fishermen near Guadeloupe.   Alone by himself,  he had to collect drinkable water, search for food, fix equipment breakdown, overcome sharks attacks, endure storms, live through physical pain and at times, depression.  Eight ships passed him by.  In those 76 days, he constantly fought for his life.  He resorted to find comfort and strength in his dreams about family, food, and water. 

The “lost at sea” journey delivers the author (and the book readers) a revelation.  Sometimes, we are adrift in life.  Sometimes, when our ideal does not match reality, we flee the reality. Sometimes, we cannot accept our own limitations as well as those of the people around us.  Through the ordeal, he learns that he is stronger than what he think he is, and he can accept his limitations while learning to compensate for them.

In his 76-day chronicle, there was detailed account how he lived his day, fixed the still, fixed his spear to be used as the only weapon to catch fish, and fixed the leaking of the raft tubes.  

What truly amazed was how he was occupied with fighting for his survival and how little he left time for despair.   Through the ordeal, he learns to live in harmony with the magic and the mystery of the sea.  It is his positive mindset that resonates and inspires the book readers.  It is one of the classics that lifts our spirit.  

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IMG_20180224_203829One day, I would come back to read it again and maybe again.

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2017 – An Emotional Year

2017 has been a year with unusual highs and lows. Deep loss is difficult to describe, freak accidents test my mental fortitude and worry for loved ones is far more stressful.

In the world of tennis, 2017 is filled with surprise. It is probably the closest thing to miracle when Roger Federer (GOAT) won the Australian Open and the two tennis masters.  My husband and I were in Cloud number nine in Indian Wells, and we witnessed Federer winning the Indian Well Mater on a beautiful day in a full stadium. 

 

I believe most people need something to engage their time, and engage their mind. I work in a company which cares about the employees, their well being as well as their family. And I am lucky to have a reasonable job to  engage our mind.

Exercise is among the best medicine, and I exceed the requirement of 150 minutes of moderate exercise for most weeks.  I earn a “healthy” mind and body amidst difficult life moments.

I reminisce the dinner with high school friends, the lunch with college friends and the lunch with the coworkers of my first employer in this year.  These are the friendships that has lasted more than two decades, with long periods of minimal contacts when we have been busy with raising families or chasing career successes.  It is heartwarming that our relationship remains strong.  

My daughter were in Japan for a summer project; my son went on his first solo international trip to Toronto for a summer study.  2017 may be the last year prior to the empty nesting experience, and there are still so much I want to pass on to them in the remaining short timeframe.  At the same time, I look forward to spending time with my lifelong hobbies – tennis, exercise, hiking, reading and writing, helping others or just learning about new things.

 

 

I was in Hong Kong in June and had some really good family gatherings.  There was the hike with my brother at the Hong Kong Unesco Global Geopark on a hot and beautiful summer day.  And I spent a fair amount of time on the bedside of my mother.  

September 2017 has been my saddest month with the passing of my mother.  Whether it is better to obsess with loss or escape through routines, I do not know.  Modern life makes haste of life events as if our brain can switch on and off our emotion, like the advance of computer processing.  I return to work, return to school, return to daily routine within a week or two, while the loss is still so fresh and painful.  

The multiple heel bone fractures of my son created such a trauma that forced us to set IMG_20171024_185920aside the loss of my mother.  I had to deal with the heart wrenching moments of helplessness. My husband and I faced the busy reality of doctor visits, surgery, extra day care routines, extra nutrition and his rehabilitation. My son had to deal with school, the injury and the college application.  It has tested our stress tolerance level to the max.  Our health is being tested, and it is a relief that we stay healthy to deal with the hardship.

white-carnation2017 has been filled with unusual events. I experience in first person how losses stick in our mind so much more than gains.  2017 will be remembered as a difficult year of loss and injury after some personal loss and trauma in 2016.  When life is at a low, it can actually go lower and then lower; even in very low moments, there are a long list of valuable things that cannot be taken away.  It is such a reminder for us to treasure all the things around.   The near-miracles witnessed in the world of tennis unexpectedly give us hope that anything is possible.

 

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A nice family dinner at San Jose

We often celebrate get together with fine dining.   On the day after Boxing Day, our family of four had dinner at Adega, a Portuguese restaurant in San Jose.  This restaurant earns a Michelin star in 2017, and table has been hard to find, we settle for a reservation at 8pm, a bit late for dinner for us. The restaurant is not in a rich neighborhood but it offers convenient valet parking, that charges only $5 for the evening.  
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The Michelin 2017 plaque is quite visible as a reminder at the entrance.  The dining area is plainly decorated with very spacious seating.  There are black ceramic swallows hanging on the wall.  It reminds me about the very famous Chinese poem in my elementary school, a very touching poem about parental love.   I learn later that these migratory birds are symbol of family and home; and stand for love, loyalty and faithfulness for the Portuguese.

The restaurant serves a variety of menu including two different food-tasting menu, a dinner menu and a dessert menu. The food tasting course carries a price tag of around $120 for a 7-course (without wine pairing) per head and it is quite a bargain if compared to a French food tasting course.  In as memorable as any food tasting menu, I often fail to memorize the taste, appearance and ingredients of the delicacy thoughtfully designed by the chef, not to mention younger children do not appreciate the delicacy as much as their parents.  

We were warmly served by a few sweet servers.  Some have a slight accent, which just adds to the foreign accent of the restaurant.  I am particularly impressed how these non-native servers describe each dish in even more clear terms.  Instead of the food tasting menu, we selected a few starters and entrees from the a la carte menu.   The restaurant treated us with additional small plates (Are these Portuguese small plates called Petiscos?)

The starters were all good, the entrees were good in portion and overall delicious. . The extra small plates gave us nice pleasant surprise on top of what we have selected.

How I remember the dinner:

  • 3 choices of bread : sweet bun, white bread, and one other yummy I-do-not-know-its-name bakery , served with house-made butter, olives and hummus.  I love the house-made butter.  The hummus is good too but not as memorable.
  • A small serving of carrot soup with a speck of olive oil on the top.  It is quite refreshing.
  • Baked ravioli with a sardine paste.  The baked ravioli is such a pleasant surprise. The sardine is what sardine tastes like, very fishy.
  • Starters of our choices
    • Pig’s Ear Salad, light and delicious
    • Deep Fried Codfish cake, wrapped with dried tomatoes, tasty just a bit heavy as a starter.
    • Lobster Bisque, tiny portion yet tasty
    • Iberico Ham and Duck slices on a board, looks nice
  • Main Courses of our choices
    • Ribeye Steak on a hot stone, cook to your need, with iberico ham, fried eggs and fried potatoes. Good portion and the steak is soft and juicy.
    • Oven Baked Octopus with spinach and potatoes.  The Octopus is very nice – tender inside and crispy outside.
    • Seafood rice cooked with a variety of seafood, with onions, peppers and cilantro.  The rice is yummy with very rich flavor.
    • Pan-seared codfish fillets over creamy potatoes.  The portion is good.
  • Dessert of our choices
    • Cinnamon soufflé baked inside a roasted apple with apple sauce and St. Jorge cheese ice cream.  The soufflé is sweeter than an apple pie, and the cheese ice cream is unique and special, a bit heavy.
  • Sparkling wine for adults, and some juicy drinks for the youth.
  • A birthday cake special and a candle, as early celebration of a birthday.  
  • Variety of sweets – meringue , chocolate and some other super-sweet item.  I like the chocolate, too sweet to finish them all.

Potatoes, seafood, ham, generosity and hospitality become my memory of Portuguese dish.  

We arrived home late in the night.  It was a clear night with bright stars.

 

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Back to School

Summer months often start well, when my kids takes a break from school.  There is just that air of relaxation and even laziness when school, homework, grades and due dates are no longer topics of family dinners.   By early August, “back to school” starts to sound good to get the kids back to the groove.

This summer, I signed up for volunteering activities in a local non-profit community center which provides needy families with “back to school” supplies.  My role was to meet the family and take them to the storage room to choose a backpack and pick up some school supplies.  The whole process took less than 10 minutes for each family, and it served as such a reminder of these needy families around us.   In my childhood, my parents were equally anxious about the expenses incurred in school.  Education has been one of the most important mean to get out of the financial hardship. Decades after,  I could not manufacture the same hardship for my children – for their elementary school years, their back to school preparation was no more eventful than a trip to a retail store to get everything on the back-to-school supplies list.

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This school year, I serve, as Registrar,  on the Board of a non-profit Chinese School.  This is a new experience, and there is such an amount of work to start a school year.  I have a deeper respect for the many school staff who does it year after year.  Such as

  • Order textbook, find a place to store the textbook.
  • Keep track of the student list.
  • Prepare 1st letter to families.
  • Mail the letter to the families
  • Mail email reminder to families.
  • Print map and student rosters on the first day of school
    Letters

It is a few days of work just to prepare the letters and address labels, print them, put the letter to the envelope with the right label, then adhere the stamps on envelopes, plus some hours to double check that the letter goes to the right envelope.

Technology sometimes disillusions us most things can be done by a push of button, and inadvertently instills a small disdain of tedious work.  It helps to be reminded that it is that someone doing some tedious work that make the world run smoothly.   

One day we may miss the number of hours that we spend in these back-to-school activities –  these hours reflect our willingness to exchange our time to make the back-to-school experience better for the parents and the students.

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A cool July

2017 is a miraculous year in the world of tennis.  After the magical Australian Open Win,  the Federer Express kept the dream alive as he won his 8th Wimbledon Title.  At this dinosaur age of 35, Federer became the very first man to win Wimbledon 8 times.  I am still ecstatic that miracles do happen if we believe in them. 

Ironically, modern life moves on fast and faster with internet, it is hard to slow motion these joyous and inspiring moments.  I am learning to pause and soak in happy moments, when they come my way.  

I am not complaining, and last two weeks of July has been great too.

My teenager went to Toronto for a 3-week summer program. I experienced a glimpse of empty nesting.   When kids are not around, time travels at a different pace, there is just more time, it takes some getting used to, and it is nice.   My husband and I went outside, watched the movie of “Spiderman” and “Wonder Woman” and took on a 3-day National Park itinerary.

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Day 1 – Mono Lake, California


Mono Lake is among places I want to go since seeing its pictures.  It is about 5 hours’ drive via the Sonora Pass.  Sonora pass is the second highest highway pass at the Sierra Nevada, after the Tioga pass.  My marginal acrophobia does not help me to enjoy the scenic route, I don’t dare to turn towards the striking mountain range.  

I like the peacefulness of Mono County.  Mono Lake is huge.  The museum is worth the visit and the 1-hour guided tour around South Tufa of the lake is very special. I must say the lake looks different from the picturesque and mystic image on postcards.  I wish I would have more time to walk around the lake at sunset or sunrise.  That must be beautiful.

Mammoth Lakes Juniper Springs Resort is just about ½ hour from Mono Lake.  It is a bit pricey considering we just sleep for the night,  and the ski-in-ski-out convenience does not give much in summer months.

Day 2 – Mammoth Lakes, Devils Postpile National Monument, Rainbow Falls
At this time, shuttle bus is the only way getting to the Devils Postpile National Monument. It is the second day that the Monument opens for the season, so we trade the Mammoth Lakes Gondola ride with a visit to the Monument.

I can feel the elevation of 2000+ meters.  We hike from the shuttle stop to the Devils Postpile and then its top. The rock formation is unique at Devils Postpile National Monument, and reminds me of the special rock at the Hong Kong Unesco Global Geopark.  From there, we take a moderate hike to the Rainbow Fall.  Rainbow Fall is a site of beauty with rainbow, the rock and the waterfall.


(We end up waiting for 40+ minutes for a shuttle to take us back to the Mammoth Lakes Ski Resort, not to mention the very expensive $4 ice cream drumstick from the store.)

The 3-hour hike is a great way to feel refreshed from day-in-day-out responsibilities.

Yosemite Valley Lodge is near the west entrance of Yosemite National Park, and is about 2 hour drive from Mammoth Lakes, via Tioga Pass.  At an elevation of 3000+ meters, the Sierra Mountain Range is striking and, for me, fearsome.

Day 3 – Yosemite Vernal Falls
The room at Yosemite Valley Lodge connects us to the meadow and the redwoods.  With the comfort of a hotel room, we enjoy the nature just like we are camping out there.  We take the Yosemite shuttle and do a 2-hour hike to the Vernal Falls Footbridge.  As we hike up the Falls, the trail becomes misty, the path becomes steep and uneven.   We do not quite make it to the top this time.

The Lodge has an outdoor swimming pool with a view of the Yosemite Falls,  we take a dip before our 4-hour drive home.

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So grateful to be still in shape to do some good hiking in 3 consecutive days.  

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I remember this June

June has been filled with memorable family and friends reunion.  In this modern time of offloading memories to calendar, photos, videos and messaging, I wish I could keep the memories in my head and cherish them at heart.

My daughter finished 2nd year in college around end of April, and has 3 months of summer holiday.  She spent May in Japan for international study and travel, before coming home for 2 weeks. The two weeks were filled with family time, and some fine dinings.  I remember our hot pot dinners at home;  the day trip to Napa Valley before enjoying a fine dining at the Farmhouse at Forestville;  her belated gifts for my birthday and mother’s day;  I remember taking care of her feet and her itchy hands; the good-bye hug at the airport as she headed back to college for some part-time jobs.  It is another phase of parenthood, where we are connected with our children but are separate from each other most of the year.

 After my daughter returned to college, I made a short trip to Hong Kong.  Better planning has allowed for more gatherings this time.   Getting together with high school friends was fun and heartwarming; it reminded me, time could be a non-factor in friendship, friends remain friends.  The college class reunion reminded me where I belonged, and we had great conversations around technology, parenting and retirement.  I have not seen some ex-coworkers of my first job for years, and it was so pleasing to know our acquaintances sustained over the years.

Many friends are at similar phase in life.  A few of us would experience an empty-nest in a year or two, some has started their retirement years, others have their own healthy hobbies. Maybe we think we are special and unique, but in reality, we are going through similar life phases like many others.  

For many of my recent trips to Hong Kong, the primary goal has been family more than friends.  Hospital and nursing homes would not be the place of choice for get together, but I ended up spending a good amount of time, and seeing many of my siblings that way.  Aside from that, we had our gatherings around various meals.  It was a satisfying trip to have meaningful get together with all  the siblings, and close relatives.   Aside from the “routines”, it was very special to have a 2-hour stroll at the very beautiful Unesco global geological park at Sai Kung.  Even more special is that I finally checked off a bucket list item with a purchase of what would become an heirloom in this trip.

As family and friends become less loaded with career pursuit and family responsibilities, I look forward to more get together in the years to come.

Such a memorable trip has been exhausting both mentally and physically.  I slept mostly on my long flight back.

A few days back home, my son had a scheduled oral surgery to remove all wisdom teeth in one take, sparing him all future expenses around wisdom teeth.

I remember this month of June.

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Is Data-ism becoming a religion?

I came across the idea of Data-ism as the new religion in the book “A Brief History of Tomorrow”.  The novelty of the idea is intriguing, then a bit unsettling, just like we find out our pet has become our master.

Screenshot_20170604-100630The smart device (aka the “Computer”) is getting smarter. It may know you, more than any other human being, as it “effortlessly” read and remember your email content, your calendar, your whereabout, and all your online activities.    It can remember all your password too, which I highly suggest that you deny every time it asks for your permission.

Just a few years ago, at a Japanese restaurant, a worker bragged about a new App that could recommend the sashimi of the day.  Over the last couple of years, the Computer has served us even more personally.

For example, the “Computer” knows from my gmail that my daughter is flying in from Japan, and without asking, it gives the latest arrival time.  Oh, her flight is going to land ahead of schedule.   Around her new arrival time,  the Computer reminds it is time to pick her up based on the latest traffic condition.  In the car, the Computer guides with a map.  Not that long ago, missing a turn is very bad, not anymore, the Computer gives the new route effortlessly.  If an accident just happens, no problem, the Computer gives a new route and I trust it to be the fastest path.   I search for a flight to Alaska, the Computer picks up my need, and alerts me a cheaper airfare.  I mean, if I am searching for a flight to Alaska, it is logical that in that moment, I am thinking of a visit.  The Computer is so thoughtful that it starts to show Ads (Advertisement) about vacation in Alaska and all the other travel ideas.   This is transformational that it turns the life-long negative perception towards Ads to a positive experience by showing relevant Ads.   Ads is no longer an interruption from what we are watching, it is becoming relevant and more interesting than what we have been watching.
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Did you notice that Gmail could suggest responses to incoming email?  Like many new features, I was impressed and was itched to use it and tell people about it.   As I accept or ignore the suggested responses, the Computer learns about it and next time, it would come up with a response that is even more thoughtful.

Because the Computer is so helpful in organizing our life, we love it, and willingly empower it.  If we pride ourselves in our ability to connect, think and learn, the Computer is superior in every way.  It is omnipresent and will soon be all-knowing.  Our judgement is giving ways to decisions largely influenced if not made by the Computer.

IMG_20170506_143818Next time, when you install an App, and it asks for permission access, what would you do? We could struggle to yield until we believe.  Just like how we turn a non-believer into a believer.

I still enjoy my senses and the beauty of our nature; and am humbled by my limitation.

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Good Reads

The Undoing Project by Michael Lewis, A friendship that changed our minds
By Michael Lewis
(How a Nobel Prize-winning theory of the mind altered our perception of reality)
Two remarkable academic figures Daniel Kahneman and Amos Tversky, two contrasting personalities, and as they came together, they worked as a non-separable single mind and brought us a series of breathtakingly original studies undoing our assumptions of how people think.  Their discoveries of systematic bias in human thinking fundamentally change not only the field of psychology but also economics, corporate hiring and medical studies.   Michael knit such a beautiful story of their research and friendship over the years, as the two went through dramatic life experiences from Israel to United States, from universities to wars.  A very enjoyable and memorable read.

Evicted by Matthew Desmond
This is one of those books that take you face-to-face to very poor people and conditions way outside of your comfort zone.  “Evicted”  describes vividly the poverty in the American City of Milwaukee and the stories of eight families on the edge; and at the same time the profit of landlords in these inner cities.  Poor families, being on the move, not only lose their basic needs of shelter; they also lose jobs, friends and securities and have to overcome the physical and mental scar from the evictions.  Without a home, everything falls apart.  As the author wrote at the end, “Each one reminds me how gracefully they refuse to be reduced to their hardships.  Poverty has not prevailed against their deep humanity”.    

These people would soon be forgotten and out of my and many readers’ minds. Until then, I would like to spread the words,  remember their stories and take the time to think about how everyone can meet their very basic needs for a shelter.  You can learn more about their stories:  www.justshelter.org.

Homo Deus – A brief history of tomorrow by Yuval Noah Harari.
In the last few hundred years, humankind has turned the forces of nature – namely, famine, plague, into manageable challenges.  What will be on the human agenda?  What destinies will we set for ourselves?  

Would computer technology and genetic engineering push us towards more prowess or the downfall of our species?   Is data-ism becoming the religion of our times?  And would our relationship with animals model the future relationship between computer and humankind?  Would the humankind be at the discretion of the new computer-human hybrids?

The book covers such a breadth and depth of many topics relevant to our life.  It entertains, captivates and creates new perspective in our everyday activities.  Regardless what your belief is for the history, the technology and the future; or simply your interaction with the smartphones, this book will have something for you to contemplate!   

pope francisPope Francis Ted Talk
It is a Ted Talk, and totally worth the few minutes of every one.
“Why the only future worth building includes everyone?”
“Why them, not me?”.

 

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十年的堅持

女兒到外洲上大學差不多兩年了,每星期都會打電話回家,相隔兩地,四個半小時飛機,或長話短說或短話長說,這些通話是我們生活的點綴。wvcls

女兒五歲開始上西谷中文學校,一直到她高中三年,因學業太忙,而沒有繼續。要孩子學習中文是少數迫孩子要做的課外學習。在女兒角度,中文學習不是她的選擇,而是爸媽的和她的刻苦。為什麼我們會希望孩子讀中文呢?每個家庭的背景大概不同。我們的堅持源自1)延續文化 2)學習中文是給孩子未來的禮物 3)與香港維持一點的聯繫。

開始幾年,她還小,又害羞,回憶中我常陪她上課。女兒留心聽書,記憶力好,雖然不多說話,但是成績很好,差不多每年都名列三甲。那時的學業優異獎是在全校畢業禮宣報的,老師忙與盼獎,得獎學生的家長忙與為孩子照相,好不熱鬧。後來好像是覺得這安排會令沒有IMG_20170423_215925得獎的學生們失望,也為了節省畢業禮時間,之後都是在班房內各班老師分發成績表的。女兒不多說話,有幾年中文演講比賽明明她準備了很好的故事,臨場又不願意站出來,令人無奈。書法比賽倒是得了一些獎吧。  小學時候,她在中文學校拿到的獎滿多呢。

到女兒大一點,每年四月開始為下學年報名前後,就像如履薄冰, 費盡心思,最後說「報咗名哪」。我後來加入學校校董會,於是媽媽也每星期上中文學校,她和兒子好像接受了安排,這樣又延續幾年。直到高中三年,看她學業真辛苦,我們才隨她,差一年她沒有在中文學校畢業,是有少少的遺憾。後來女兒又為中文學校五十週年活動中製作短片,也算跟中文學校延續另一年的關係。

上大學後,女兒每星期會用廣東話和我通電話,偶爾會用短訊溝通,短訊是要寫的,一直是用英文的。幾個月前,她寫了一封短訊「新年快樂」,之後又會寫「情人節快樂」,「可不可以今晚九點半打電話?」等等。

大部分有意義的人事都是需要時間,積累成果,過程不一定是平坦的,也不一定容易的。我還是希望十多年的堅持會有回報吧!各位家長加油啊。

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