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NGO Trip: HER Labs, Kenya (Part 2) 

The vocational school HER Lab Kajiado, second chance for women 明天會更好
Many Kenyan women were married and had kids very early. They do not have a chance for education nor any means to make a living. The HER lab has the mission to offer a second chance for women.

We visited one of the HER lab initiatives, a vocational school within driving distance of Nairobi after visiting the boarding school inside of Kibera, the largest slum in Africa.

We were welcomed in the school with a flag raising ceremony and song singing in Helga. The kids were lovely and curious. Afterwards, we joined a group of Kenyan women in a room, listening to their stories. These Kenyan women committed no offence. They married young, raised kids at an age where their American equivalences are still in school. The second chance vocational school taught them vocational skills such as beading, tailoring, so they could make a living. It is not a stereotype, but some married Kenyan men desert their wife, take all the money with them and find other wives. With the training and the support, these women can earn some money and equally important, keep the money. Not only does it help them financially, it gives them confidence and self-esteem. Some women need to take care of young children during the day. To support them, the vocational center has set up facilities to take care of the children, while the women learn new skills. I am so humbled by the courage and strength of these women to break the mold.

The community school HER Lab West Pokot 自强自由之路
This other HER lab is located in West Pokot. We flew from Nairobi to Eldoret. West Pokot is about two to three hours of drive from Eldoret. Our hotel is located next to a rather upscale shopping mall. Overall Eldoret gives us a better impression than Nairobi.   

Going from Eldoret to West Pokot, we passed through quite a number of small towns, heading towards the countryside where West Pokot is located. 

The welcoming party was impressive to the point of overwhelming. There were like seven hundred people, singing and dancing. They found us and helped us put on a Massai collar and a Massai dress, while they were dancing and singing around us. 

After the welcoming party, we toured the facilities, checking out the garden/farm.  The girls take pride in their gardens where they grow vegetables and fruits for themselves, and we had tasted some of the produce in our lunch. They also attend the different workshops to learn practical life skills through electrical workshop, plumbing workshop, beading workshop, tailoring workshop, cosmetology, the media workshop and the computer workshop. This is a more established HER lab compared to the other HER lab Kajiado we visited before.

A few girls shared their experiences through their emotional speeches during lunch. It gave us some ideas on the kinds of effort the staff has put together to support the girls. 

The HER Lab is not just for the girls, it also serves the community.  In the afternoon, we were introduced to the community before joining an outdoor workshop “Know me by my Name: My Name, My Voice, my Power” for the women of different ages. The topic was about financial freedom. We sat in a circle, with two school-age girls as facilitators. The participants shared their experience about their saving habits, their businesses, and ways they would like to improve. I did not speak their languages, one girl translated. In spite of the language barrier, I felt their energy, their hope and their happiness for the future. 

Three projects (Kibera, Kajiado, West Pokot) on three days. It is energizing to experience the rays of hopes from the girls and women. 

Next: Ambroseli National Park (Safari) 

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Rekindle Life-long friendship with reunions

2025 marks the beginning that I have been in the California Bay Area longer than Hong Kong , a city where I was born and raised. To which city am I supposed to be homecoming?   

Every trip to Hong Kong reminds me that happiness is tied to human connections. Trips in Hong Kong are less about sightseeing, more about connections with families and friends. There is the delight to find families and friends doing well. Special events often play a role in firming up our travel plan. This year, the special event turned out to be the 125th anniversary of my secondary school.

When I was still studying in secondary school, we celebrated the 80th anniversary of school. This year is the 125th anniversary of my secondary school, 45 years since the 80th anniversary. I made the trip to join the anniversary dinner with over a thousand other graduates in Hong Kong. How amazing is that!

Despite many complaints about the demanding nature of Hong Kong education systems, the Hong Kong system appears to offer a better environment for students to build lasting friendships. I personally experienced the life-long friendship deeply again with the multiple reunions with the secondary school classmates on this trip.

The Hong Kong pre-college education consists of kindergarten years, 6 primary school years and 6 secondary school years. In my days, the students have just a few subjects we can choose: art vs science, geography vs history, etc. Due to the limited varieties, I had many classmates taking the same curricula with me.  That created so many shared memories. The classmates may drift apart for years. Some of us may move to different places of the world. Often when someone, like me, comes back to Hong Kong for a short trip, we get together, the bonding revives so naturally and so quickly. It is a life-long friendship with a class of friends.

Comparatively, the Bay Area education consists of pre-school years, 6 elementary school years, 2 middle school schools, then four high school years. There is less continuity when the kids grow up in their teen years. The rich choice of subjects mean most kids hardly are on the same curricula or with the same teachers. After graduation, the classmates would settle in different parts of the US if not of the world, far away from each other. Sometimes, I am concerned about the few friendships one can sustain after graduation especially for those who may not be a social butterfly in their teen years. In spite of its heavy homework and strenuous studies, the Hong Kong system is better in terms of life-long friendship.

The school celebrated the 80th anniversary of school when I was still a teenager. The school did not jump from the 80th anniversary to the 125th anniversary. I skipped many, if not all, the between, and jumped 45 years for a special anniversary dinner.

The 125 anniversary dinner was held in the 5-star Hopewell hotel in Hong Kong, with 125 tables, 10 per table. When I arrived at the hotel, many current students in the CheongSam school uniform were there at the building entry, showing us the ways to the Grand Ballroom on the 16/F floor. They bridged all the years, and brought back so many memories of my own school days. They just looked to be the refined and upgraded versions of our generations. When I got to the Grand Ballroom, it became immediately apparent that the organizers had put in tons of thoughts in setting up the venue. It certainly felt star-studded an Oscar experience with classmates, students, teachers and principles. I immediately felt at ease and it was easy to find my table among the 125 tables.  A couple of my classmates were already there. One also flew in from California. We had not seen each other for years. Just seeing her made my trip to Hong Kong worthwhile. Soon the tables were filled. The conversations bridged all the gaps of the years. My school is a Girls’ Christian school. We were busy chatting, and did not notice the noise level of a thousand of us catching up with each other in the Grand Ballroom. It took some effort for the MC to kick off the evenings with school songs and prayers. The school song has a phrase that tells our hearts to stay together even if we will be far apart. I certainly felt that I had not lived up to that phrase after drifting away for many of the years. The performance of the current students has been impressive, and the farewell set up for the current school principal has been thoughtful and heartwarming. What I like the most is the opportunities to catch up with each other, reminisce about our school days, see our  teachers, and other familiar faces. We took a bunch of photos together.  

It was an evening that I would remember for a very long time. I am thankful that after all these years, we can rekindle our friendship and are still young enough to have some remaining years together. We met again shortly after the anniversary dinner and look forward to more happy times in the years to come. 

If you graduated from high school this year, and your school continues another 45 years, you will join your school anniversary dinner in the year 2070. How special will that be for you?

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