I am so grateful for the amazing trips to meet families and friends this year – Hawaii in January, Hong Kong, Macau and Canton in April, Vancouver & Reno in May and Turkey coming up soon in June.
I lack the literary skills and patience to vividly summarize the emotions and experiences. I need the time to rest and reflect. I need the time to settle down the emotional excitement in many gatherings. The world is moving towards a multi-modal recall of our experience. We take pictures to immortalize the point in time experience, we use video to capture the 3D events, conversations, and these days, a written report seems to be a thing in the past. Our memory changes all the time too. As much as I want to catch those in-the-moment happiness for longer, I don’t have enough long-term memory nor a way to freeze time. The world is a fair place in the sense that if we do many things, we tend to remember less of each thing. If we do little things, we remember most of the things. My mother remembered every single trip vividly. In contrast, I often have a hard time remembering the specifics and need help from the multi-model technology. With all the technology, it is so easy to be occupied in every single moment. At the same time, I miss those empty spaces that allow us to enjoy and stay in one moment. Living in slow motion is indeed an art that I have not grasped.
January 2023 Big Island
Once the children start having their own career, it needs careful scheduling for family trips. We earn the luxury to skip the busy school breaks. This January, mom and dad, and my younger son flew from SFO with my daughter flying from NYC for a week in Hawaii Big Island. This was our Hawaii encore after our last trip to Honolulu.
We always enjoyed the laid-back sentiment and an itinerary without must-see attractions nor must-do.
We split our Big Island itinerary between the Hawaii Volcano area and the Kona/Waikoloa area.






- The Kilauea lodge, with a short distance from Hawaii Volcano area, was welcoming, and well maintained. Its location was perfect for us to visit the Volcano National Park at any time of the day or night. It has relatively small rooms for the four of us, but its external setting made up for all the interior constraints. Every morning, we could get out of our room to an immediate garden in the backyard, to appreciate the flora and bird chirping; or enjoy our breakfast in a spacious community area all by ourselves. In the evening, we could relax in the outdoor spa. The lodge has a dining room with subtle decor and can be easily disguised as modest. The lodge dinner room served one of the most delicious dinners on this trip, if not the most on my son’s birthday. The lodge takes dinner reservations and we highly recommend it to fellow tourists.






- We spent more time in the Kona area with better weather and more beaches. Our airbnb in the Waikoloa area provided a kitchen, two bedrooms and a balcony that overlooked a quiet golf course and a petroglyph area. Every morning, we started slowly with breakfast on the balcony for everyone to ease into the day. Sometimes a colorful gecko can be seen, on the balcony, as an uninvited guest.

At the time of our visit, the Kilauea Volcano was erupting. The Volcano National Park was a short drive from the Kilauea Lodge followed by a perfect after-dinner walk to get to a vista point. The scene of a live lava eruption was otherworldly and powerful even viewing from more than a mile away.






The National Park was a different scene during the day as we drove by the Lava Rocks the next day. Walking on them feels like walking on glass particles, rightfully so. We enjoyed the Mars-like scenery as we explored the rugged crater floor and hiked on the Kilauea Iki Trail, Halema’uma’u Crater Trail and Crater Rim Trail. These sceneries are unique in Hawaii Big Island.



The Kona and Waikoloa area in the West has better weather and more calming beaches waiting. The airbnb host provided us with all kinds of beach gear and towels that pretty much filled up the truck of our rental car. They equipped us super well in our beach hoppings on Mauna Kea, Beach 69 and other nearby beaches.







We enjoyed Hawaiian cuisine (Poke bowl, ice shave, the Moa Kitchen, the Hilo Kona coffee and BBQ meat) and many more. There are beaches with different sand colors that make them unique. The black sand beach with green sea tortoise abounds. The hike to a green sand beach along the coastline was special.
Taking a hike with my family along the coastline was a truly memorable experience. We were intrigued with the concept of a green sand beach, Papakōlea Green Sand Beach. From the parking lot, it was an over-an-hour hike on a rugged path. Some got to the beach by taking a 20-minute jeep ride and experiencing the many bumps along the way. We were filled with excitement as we arrived at the Papakōlea Green Sand Beach. The beach was a bit sparse, definitely not crowded like other more accessible beaches. The water was too wavy for a safe swim. We had a great time walking along the beach, relaxing on the beach, dipping into the ocean water, and admiring the unusual color of the sand.
The camera could not capture the greenness in the way we want. We still tried.
We have not done snorkeling as a family since our trip in Maldives more than a decade ago. The children are young adults. Once in the water, we were in all different directions, searching for the most beautiful fishes or sea creatures.
Swimming, mini-shortboarding and sunbathing on beaches were so much fun to do as a family.
I could not ask for a better week of family fun and look forward to our next trip to maybe Kauai.
Coming soon : Hong Kong, Macau, Foshan April blog
















































































































































































