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For all tennis lovers: Tennis Camp at Pebble Beach.

I was single. I brought my tennis racket when I went on business trips to the US.  That was the Ivan Lendl era. That was a long time ago. Many things have changed including having two children in their twenties. The Roger Federer era has come. The next generation of Alcaraz and Sinner rivalry is just at the beginning. What has not changed is I still enjoy tennis. I cannot catch up on the years lost during the years of child rearing.  I have not given hope.  I hope I can get back to the game and play more.

This year, my spouse and I signed up for a Nike Tennis Camp at Pebble Beach.  We were very looking forward to it, until it created a conflict for the WAVE hike. We finally made the Tennis Camp the last weekend in October. The camp is for intermediate level, for people at or above 3.0 in the play scale. The few weeks before the camp, we played once or twice a week in practice, so as not to embarrass ourselves. I enjoyed the practice, clearly my shoulder and my tennis elbow both gave some whisper that it could become noisy with more playing.

The Pebble Beach Lodge is pricey and can be over $1000 per night. Considering the little time we would stay inside, we found a nearby Airbnb in the Carmel area. 

The Airbnb host gave us permission to check in an hour early before we checked in to the Tennis Camp on Thursday. This Airbnb check-in turned out to be the simplest ever, there was no passcode, no key, we passed two garden gates, and walked in. The host left a guidebook on the table, giving us everything to know about restaurants, spas, markets. We could tell the unit has some years on it, but it was well maintained inside and outside. There was a small backyard, which made a great small BBQ party during the warmer season. In autumn, the inside of the unit looked more inviting. We did not have much time  before checking into the Tennis Camp in the afternoon. Little did we know the simple check-in turned out to have a catch.  More on this later.

We need to go through the scenic 17-mile drive, a toll road, to get to the Tennis Camp. The codeword to drive on the 17-mile scenic drive for free is “Tennis Camp”. The Tennis Camp area has many well groomed courts, including a couple of clay courts, and a tennis store with friendly staff. The tennis area is right next to the beautiful Pebble Beach golf course, along the Pacific Ocean. The you-know-what-number hole is right next to the parking lot of the Tennis Camp. For the weekend, we felt at home in the Carmel and Pebble Beach neighborhood. We experienced the feeling of living in the beautiful area.  

The camp goes from Thursday afternoon to Sunday morning, giving us a 2-hour play on Thursday, a full-day 9 to 4 play both Friday and Saturday. If that is still not enough, it includes a Sunday free play too. We checked in the Tennis Camp and met other fellow players. Many gave subtle messages that they came to play tennis not for social reasons. We were among the few who were rookies to Tennis Camps. These Tennis Campers were not particularly enthused in making friends, except for a few that came in singles, who may have a different agenda.  All-in-all, all the campers love playing tennis and can play hours of tennis.

We were sent to a court to join another 2 players to play doubles. After a few rotations on the courts in the afternoon, we got a sense of the playing levels. Most other players had better double techniques, played regularly, and often played in some forms of ladder. My serving skill and ground stroke is not too scrappy either. Most campers are from the Bay Area. There was one group from Canada. Most came with friends. There was one 20-something who came on his own. He was the best in class. On the last day of the camp, he beat one of the younger coaches. My spouse and I were arguably the most obvious recreational players. We hardly played doubles. We hardly play for the past years, other than in the few weeks prior to the Tennis Camp. We never play in a club. Yet we can play. Tennis players were famous for their competitiveness on court. We observed a few.  I was both anxious and excited. My major anxiety is whether my shoulder and elbow could hold up throughout the camp. I would later find out.

When we returned Friday morning, each of us were set up to rotate over a number of coaches. Each coach focuses their 30-minute sessions on different techniques, from serving, ground strokes, rally, overhead, to strategies. After about three hours, we went to the Pebble Beach clubhouse for lunch. It is about a 10-minute scenic walk besides the famous golf course. The Pebble Beach clubhouse is usually reserved for members. The Tennis Camp has made special arrangements to get us in. Lunch is good. The view of the Pacific Ocean and the 18th hole is memorable. We took as many photos as possible while respecting the privacy of other diners.

Out of the blue, I got a call from our Airbnb host while enjoying the delicious lunch at the Pebble Beach Clubhouse.  I was informed that we checked in the wrong Airbnb unit. Could there be a bigger OMG moment? We checked in the unit next to our assigned unit. It was a better one. We were embarrassed yet relieved to find out “our” unit was available, and the host gave us a “free upgrade”. After a few days, I gained enough courage to find out whether it was our mistake or it was an instructional error. It turned out to be the latter. Despite this gaffe, both the host and I gave 5-star ratings to each other.

After the scenic lunch, we were back for our afternoon. The afternoon started with coaches playing in doubles with each other, to walk us through double skills and tactics. It was particularly insightful for us, non double players. There were three choices afterwards: a single group, a clay court group and some other groups. We decided to check out the unusual combination of clay courts, California and Pebble Beach. We enjoyed the experience. My shoulder and elbow held up barely, and that got me anxious about Saturday.  

The Tennis Camp ended each day before sunset, leaving us the evening to enjoy.  Carmel-by-the-sea and the Pebble Beach area are great places for great restaurants. We had one of the best Italian food at the La Bicyclette restaurant.

Saturday started about an hour late, due to the rain. The morning was similar to the day before, and we were sent to a number of 30-minute sessions. The rotations were such a great setup, I could come back to the camp, just to pick the brains of the different coaches. We had a shorter lunch to make up for the late start. Everyone brought their own lunches.  The afternoon was competitive, where we matched with different doubles partners and played different opponents. We played 10 games each. Every game we won would count towards our score. The one with the highest scores got the bragging right. We did not play every single person. The camp organizer was thoughtful to match us with people of similar levels, to make the matches competitive. My hands hardly held up. Every server was a doubt and almost a struggle. I did not want to disappoint my double partners. As such, I ended up serving the best in my own life, despite the situation. I scored some games, but far from the winner of the contest. It was a beautiful moment in that group picture. My body somewhat held up. I learned so much about the doubles positioning, and so many other tips we could put in our single play. As a tennis lover, it was just a treat to have a chance to play tennis and only tennis for the last three days.

We were treated to a group dinner at the Inn at Spanish Bay. The dinner tab was included in the Tennis Camp fee, yet the menu and the wine provision were generous. After watching the beautiful sunset, we arrived at Roy’s at the beautiful The Inn at Spanish Bay.  We settled in one of the tables. Most campers took some time to change to their dining dress code. They looked so put together that it took us a while to recognize each other! The food was so good. The ambience was memorable, the conversations flew. We spent so much time on tennis courts for the last three days. After the dinner, we were on different paths again.

My spouse and I are enthused to put the tips in practice, play more. We would love to be back in another tennis camp, likely in another beautiful venue. 

Truth is the first few weeks after the camp, my shoulder was giving me fits. I had to patiently wait for its recovery. After a few more weeks of slow-as-nail improvements, I decided to check it out. I was suggested to do a few therapy sessions to strengthen my shoulder muscles. Luckily, there was no injury. Rather, I overused the shoulder muscle. 

Tennis Camp at Pebble Beach is a once-in-a-lifetime experience. Few things are more rewarding than spending time doing something you love for hours and days.

I enjoy playing tennis. I am patiently waiting to play more and more.  

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Laver Cup – Farewell Federer

We had planned to watch Federer in the Laver Cup at London’s O2 Arena, to watch Roger Federer. A month before the event, all of the big 4 (Roger Federer, Rafa Nadal, Novak Djokovic, and Andy Murray) confirmed their attendance. Something seemed to be in the air with this rare union. A week before our trip, Federer broke the sad news of his imminent retirement, and that the Laver Cup would be his last ATP tournament.

After Spain, London could not be more different. London has just come out of the mourning period of Queen Elizabeth and the locals seem to have come out of Covid-19, as if nothing has happened. The country is plagued with Brexit challenges, a double digit inflation, the beyond-dramatic political turmoil, the record high energy prices, the passing of the Queen, the pandemic. Were Londoners numb? Were Londoners indifferent? Were Londoners strong and resilient? Walking on the street, we could not feel the unrest that would have been totally normal in such a state of affairs.

London is arguably the city I stop over the most times over the years. Born and raised in Hong Kong, there are similarities between Hong Kong and London in shopping malls design, in bus terminals design, the HSBC bank and many other things. There is little language barrier. The location is convenient for people traveling into Europe. And there are long-time friends in London. There are a lot of things one can do in the city. Britain makes the top choice for HongKongers to send kids to college or move to. In spite of all these, London comes to me as a transition, as a hub towards a destination but not a place for personal connections. There are cities that I look forward to returning to. London is not one of them.   

Our plane landed in London. We expected Heathrow airport, instead, the airport building showed “Luton”.  It was one of the rarity that we ended up in the wrong airport and fortunately the right city. The Stratford hotel is situated in the middle of the two airports. Google Maps once again saved us from the blunder.

We like having a big English breakfast at a local cafe. That was what we got in the morning.

We had tickets for the Day 1 Noon session of the Laver Cup. Federer was not playing in that session. He showed up and cheered for his team from the benches. After the Day session, we followed where the lines were, and queued up for the practice sessions of Federer and Nadal. By the time we got to the top of the queue, Federer was done with his practice, we were only able to catch the practice of the harder working Nadal. In the evening chill, we watched the livestream of the night session at this fan zone outside of the Arena together with a couple of hundred die-hard fans. Federer and Nadal (Fedal) were a point away from the victory. It was not meant to be and for this match, winning was not the point either. The match was followed by an emotional interview and memorable farewell to Federer. The emotion was hard to describe – a mix of sadness, dread, nostalgia, camaraderie, happiness, gratitude, best wishes, letting go and moving on. By the time we were back to the hotel, it was beyond 1am and it was not easy to have a sound sleep with all these emotions running high. It has been a once-in-a-lifetime experience to witness the end of the era. Records are meant to be created and broken. I would forever miss Federer’s greatness in how he plays, how he connects with so many at the very human level for so many years. 

2022 saw the retirement of the greatest in tennis : Serena Williams and Roger Federer.  I need to retire from watching tennis for a little bit to recover. And we concluded our 2022 travel to recover.

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2019 in review

2019 is a year of many events and a few  life moments. I hope everyone has a chance to take a moment to review the year from a personal perspective.  Here is my list of top events. 

I am saddened to watch the months of unrest in Hong Kong from afar.  If 2019 is the ultimate outburst of deep-rooted resentment for HongKongers, let’s hope 2020 will be a year of resolution and reconciliation.

My body has been noisy this year. My  gastroenterologist considered me as a challenging patient after year-long stomach issue and multiple antibiotics. A procedure, followed by a surgery to remove gallbladder stones, may have addressed the root cause, or at least I hope.  Unfortunately, a number of friends have run into various kinds of health issues, confirming “when it rains, it pours”.

I took a different job within the company for a change, working on ambient/voice computing.  It is a mixed feeling of excitement, anxiety, uncertainty, challenges and of course, tons of learning.  On the other hand, my spouse took a break from employment after all these years. It is a year of changes for us in our career.

We travelled to five countries Netherland (Amsterdam), Belgium (Ghent, Brussels, Bruges), UK (Wimbledon, London), Portugal (Lisbon, Madeira) plus a few places in the US (Indian Wells, LA, NYC).  We had scores of wonderful moments including the fairy tale like city of Bruges, the best snack @Pastei De Belem (Portuguese Egg Tart), the mind-clearing  hike @Madeira PR11.

Home improvements have been on a  fast track. Within the year, our home had a new furnace, a new air conditioner, a new set of recessed lights, a new 300 sq. ft plus sunroom, and soon a new Tesla.  This is how much extra time empty-nesters can have.

As tennis fans, my husband and I attended the Indian Well TennisIMG_20190705_125726.  I vividly remembered seeing the ultimate champion Dominique Thiem outside of the hotel before the final, and he beat Federer in the final :(.   For a tennis fan, attending Wimbledon is the pinnacle experience.  We checked off this bucket list item and experienced the unforgettable 2-day Queue, and the surreal experience of watching Federer/Serena from the second row in the Center CourtIMG_20190504_084639

As a parent, we had the proud moments of seeing our daughter graduating from college.  She decided to move to NYC, and she got a job in Manhattan!  We visited her in NYC and took the opportunity to watch US open.

We feel blessed that our family of four are all home during Christmas and New Year.  We went to gym, and we have some relaxing moments together.   Children are cooking dishes like Risotto, Katsu, Okonomiyaki for us. We had some meet up with family and friends. 

As the year approaches its conclusion, I am immensely thankful for these moments in 2019.     

It is almost time to check how many 2019 goals have been achieved, and set goals for 2020.  

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Wimbledon – The Queue, Center Court and Federer

Watching Wimbledon Championships is the peak of experience for a tennis fan.  Watching Federer playing live at Wimbledon Centre Court is a once-in-a-lifetime experience.  We checked off this bucket item this summer.

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We checked in our Wimbledon airbnb two days before Wimbledon Championships began.  We quickly discovered our airbnb has been the house of Rafael Nadal in the past few years; this year, Rafael Nadal and Nick Kyrgios lived a few houses down the block, right opposite to each other.   

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Among the four tennis grand slams, Wimbledon is the tournament with the Queue for the die-hard tennis fans to queue up to get tickets.   For the other three grand slams, we can get tickets online with pricey but reasonable price tags.    For Wimbledon, the Queue is pretty much the only option for international travellers like us.

Our airbnb host kindly lent us high quality camping gears so we could tent at Wimbledon park overnight.  And we were lucky to know the weather was warm and sunny for the fortnight.

June 29
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Even before the official Queue started, there were a hundred or so people setting up tents in the Wimbledon Park.   We chatted with a few die-hard fans who were super friendly, knowledgeable and excited to share their experiences over the years.  They were excited to see us when they ran into us in the Queue a few days after. From their intelligence, we decided to get into the Queue as early as possible.  

June 30
1pm, we got in the queue, two days before the Tuesday when Roger Federer was scheduled to play his first match.   We were in good company of many fanatic fans, from all over the world.  The queuing time was kind of bonding time with people from all over the world, and it was fun talking to folks from South Africa, Hungary, China and of course the locals.

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3:45pm, we put up our tent in the park. We became neighbours to the same folks for the next two days and had a lot of social times.    

img_20190630_164311-e1564288504921.jpg4:30pm, we got our Queue card and its number 805 was our priority in the Queue.  For any day, the first 500 got tickets for the match of their choices; the next 1000 got tickets to one of the three show courts.  To get the insurance to watch Roger Federer, we had to be in the first 500. In the park, there were people playing racket balls, there were food stalls, and accessible toilets.  It was pleasant and lively. The Queue was very well organised, and there were honorary Wimbledon stewards walking around, ready to answer our questions. We were not supposed to be away from the tent for more than 30 minutes, though the rules were not strictly enforced and we could still take some breaks here and there.   

5:45pm, we had take-out dinner and the evening was cool and comfortable.

8pm, we were tired, and went to bed early.  

July 1
4:15am, we were awakened around dawn, as many campers started making moves.

5:45am, we were all packed up, waiting to make a move.   The stewards separated the campers into two groups, with the first group for the matches of the day, and the second group for the matches of the day after.  We belonged to the latter group.   

img_20190701_145911-e1564288628715.jpg7am, we moved our tents to a waiting area. 

9am, we settled in a new position.

12pm,  we got a new Queue card, with a new number 247.   We were elated as that guaranteed us to see the match of our choice.  The remaining day went by pretty quickly as we socialised with our neighbours, mostly fans of Roger Federer; and took short breaks to take shower and to get take-out.   

It was another warm, sunny and beautiful day in the park.    The evening-cool was again welcome, and we slept early.   

8pm,  just when we were dozing off, the Wimbledon steward checked each tent again to make sure all was inhabited with real tennis fans.

July 2, Centre Court
6am, we were awake and  start putting down the tent.  We checked in our camping gear in a nearby storage facilities set up for us, got breakfast from the food stalls. 

We were then split into groups for the different types of tickets, and each was given a wristband. The wristband remained the evidence of the Queue experience.   From the park to the ticket turnstile, it was about a mile and everyone was super-excited in this final mile. We got some tips from the more experienced that sections 101 to 103  would be among the best seating in the Centre Court.  IMG_20190705_125726

10:30am, grounds open and tickets at hand for section 103, 2nd row.   We entered the Wimbledon grounds, and we were overjoyed that a dream has come true.  The Wimbledon store is right after the entrance, and we bought a few items quickly.   The grounds were so very beautiful and immaculately groomed. We tried the famous strawberry and cream. The Wimbledon stewards were polite, happy, patient with our questions and they did such a good job to make us feel welcome. Time flew by pretty quickly as we wandered to watch players practice, watch matches on the outside courts or just pinched ourselves to believe that we finally made it. 


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img_20190727_212916-e1564289035396.jpg1pm, we were at our seat, ready for the order of play:

  1. Kerber vs T. Maria
  2. Federer vs L. Harris
  3. Williams vs G. Gatto-Monticone

In the first match, Kerber won easy and quick.   The Federer match followed quickly. Federer received a super-warm welcome as he came on the court.   Most spectators were Federer’s fans. Before the first ball was played, I felt immensely how huge the expectations must be that Federer carried on his shoulder, and how his presence then victory brought happiness to the many fans in the Center Court and around the world.   Surprisingly, he lost the first set to the little known South African L. Harris, the collective sentiment in the stadium was hard to describe in words, but it felt like “how dare you to win a set against Federer?”. Federer won in 3 sets to 1.  The live experience was so much more magical than the watching-at-home experience.   

IMG_20190702_124402If Federer is lean and fit, Serena looks bulky but very intimidating on the court.  She looked super strong and looked heavier than Federer. The first set was no match, but the qualifier put up a fight in the second set.  Serena won in straight sets.  

The Centre Court experience was deeply satisfying.   

We strolled up to Aorangi Terrace, commonly known as Henman Hill was crowded with spectators who did not get the show court tickets.  It was beautiful with a gorgeous view of the Centre Court, the Big TV, and Court No. 1.  

The Wimbledon museum closes at 7:30pm and we missed the opening hours just by a few minutes.    I was determined to come back to the grounds and the museum another day.

My first day in Wimbledon grounds has been a once-in-a-lifetime experience and I wanted more of it.  

July 3
After the Centre court experience, I spent the day after to explore the Wimbledon Village and the Wimbledon downtown, had lunch at the Dog & Fox pub. 

We had a nice dinner at the SticksNSushi in Wimbledon where we saw Nick Kyrgios who was scheduled to have a big match against Rafael Nadal the next day. 

July 4


We went to Hyde Park in the morning.  

2pm, I was back to airbnb to watch some tennis matches online.

5pm, I went back to the Wimbledon Queue in the park.  

7:30pm, the stewards informed us the ground was full and they would soon close the park.  I was devastated. I ended up watching some matches from the big TV outside of Morrisons while my husband went to watch Tina Turner in London.

July 5
After the disappointment the day before, I learned that there were no short cut around the Queue and the better strategy was to honestly wait.   My husband went to Bath, while I went back to the Queue.  

9:30am, on my way back to the Queue, I ran into the whole Federer family – Mirka, Federer’s parents, and his kids (I saw both daughters, but I was so happy to see Mirka and could not remember if I saw both boys or just one of the two).   What struck me was how normal and how typical they are as a family, it was really good for their kids to live this way even their father is such a celebrity and is admired by tens of millions around the world. They seemed to be on the way playing some racket balls, and they were holding some sort of rackets, not tennis rackets though.  I said “hello”; both his mom and Mirka responded with a “hello” back.   

2pm, The Wimbledon museum deserves a visit.   The virtual reality movie provided memorable first hand experience of Wimbledon 2016.  The trophy looks magnificent.  

3:30pm, I was joined by an acquaintance from the Queue, to watch a few hours of tennis at the Henman Hill. We got in Court 12 to watch the mixed doubles of V. Williams and F. Tiafoe, it was a short match and we went back to Henman Hill.   When the 15-year old Coco won the match, the whole Henman Hill gave one of the loudest roars, as if we all won the biggest prize of our collective lives.  It was simply unbelievable how all of us love Cinderella storyline.

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8:00pm, sunset was beautiful in Wimbledon. 

July 6 and beyond
My dream has come true this week in Wimbledon.  I am still elated with the memory watching Federer at Wimbledon Centre Court.  The Queue and the Centre Court are once-in-life-time experiences. Any tennis fans should go for it, at least once.  

I was gutted that Federer missed two championship points.  It would have been the best fairy tale if he had won the 2019 trophy.  Life is never perfect,  nothing could take away the cosy Queue experience, the magical Federer experience, his hard-earned win over Nadal, and . . .

Also check out this blog for more of this 2019 trip.

 

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June: Amsterdam & some Belgium Cities

Watching Federer live at Wimbledon Center Court is a once-in-a-lifetime experience for a tennis fan.    I hit this bucket list item this July and still feel elated by the experience.

Our family of four arrived in Europe, on different flights from three US cities, a week before the Wimbledon tournament.   We thoughtfully selected a few “easy” European cities near London to spare the week. 

As empty-nesters, my husband and I are always happy that our children join us in our trip.   The four of us visited the progressive Amsterdam as well as the beautiful Belgium cities of Ghent, Brussels and Bruges.  

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In Amsterdam, we visited the historic Ann Frank house on the first day.  It is hard to not be wretched by what had happened to the family and the millions Jews during World World II.   Have we treated similar racial persecution in the modern world with indifference? The museum is very well organized and there has been visible effort to keep the house intact for all these years.  As if a way to lighten up our heart, there are tons of canal cruises just right outside of the museum. We did the canal cruise, tulip museum, cheese museum after before briefly strolled in the red light district. 

 

On the second day in Amsterdam, each of us went different routes – my daughter went to the arts museum, my son rented a bike to get out of the city while their parents thoroughly enjoyed the tourist-favorite Van Gogh Museum – four people three itineraries on the same day.   Is this the new definition of family travelling together?  

 

On the third day, we took the Thalys train from Amsterdam to Ghent in Belgium.  Going between countries in Europe is as simple as going between cities in the Bay Area.

Our airbnb in Ghent is a 15-minutes walk from the train station.  It fit perfectly the description of a (better) home away from home.  It is spacious, comfortable and beautiful, and we had the whole 3-story home with a fully equipped kitchen.  The thoughtful host provided all kinds of tips from restaurant to bakeries to groceries. She lives right across the street, and we could not ask for a more accessible host.  In the three days there, every morning I walked that few minutes to get freshly baked croissants and pastries, while watching the locals bike to school or work. I could almost reminisce what life could be like in the quiet town in the medieval times.  A good breakfast gave us the perfect fuel for our day-trips with Ghent as our base.   

 

We spent the next day in Brussels.  Brussels is among the most beautiful European cities and a city of significance for the EU establishment..  The Garden of Mont Des Arts is spectacular and the Grand Place is impressive with so many eye-catching architecture buildings. I would have loved to just sit  in a cafe at the Grand Place to appreciate the city but there are so many other cities worth visiting.    

 

Next day, we took the train to Bruges, a medieval town that is every single bit worth visiting.  We went up the 300+ staircase to the top of the Belfry Tower and truly appreciated the engineering work of the clock tower which informed the medieval inhabitants the time of the day and synchronized their schedule.   Afterwards, we enjoyed a nice lunch at the fairy tale like Market Square, then visited Basilica of the Holy Blood.  There could be so many photo-stops in Bruges, but I would remember very favorably the hour my children and I sipped hot chocolate together at the Old Chocolate House.

 

I enjoyed Amsterdam and Belgium cities, and would like to spend more time in these two countries.   My husband and I are ready to move on to Wimbledon.

Also my own blog for the once-in-a-lifetime Wimbledon experience, and this blog for more of this 2019 trip.

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March: Indian Wells Tennis

 

Indian Wells, next to Palm Springs,  is about 2 hours drive from Los Angeles.   Situated in the desert, this beautiful city is surrounded by layers of hills, and is a popular retirement destination as well as a winter snowbird destination.  The area strikes a perfect balance of quietness and convenience; for the diners, there are many international choices. It feels like a perfect location for sanctuaries and has been a popular resort for hollywood stars.  Four out of the last five years, we went to watch Indian Wells Tennis Master in March. This year, it was all the more special as we made a detour to UCLA to dine with our son.

Since Larry Ellison became the owner of the tennis tournament, he threw a few hundreds millions to make continuous improvements to the tennis gardens, bring in nice chef, renovate the gardens, improve the fans’ experience and raise the prize money for the players.  As an example of improving fans’ experience, he bought the piece of land next to the tennis stadium, and turned it into a huge grass-surface parking lots. We paid $25 for the parking for a day and took a short walk to the tennis garden.

The tournament has grown in the past few years.  This year, we had a hard time to get the tickets for the final, and ended up paying $500 per ticket.  We were somewhat lucky to be treated with two great finals, both went the distance of three setters. Seated so much closer to the tennis court, we felt the pace and the power.    While disappointed that Federer lost to Thiem in a tight final, it was not meant to be , and it was hard to dislike Thiem.

On the day before, we thought we were luckier to hold that $70 semi-final ticket, to witness the 39th match between Nadal and Federer.  The ticket could be easily resold at five times of the original price tag on the tournament website.  Much to our disappointment, Nadal withdrew hours before the match.  He should have come play a few games, and it would have made it so memorable for the 14,000 tennis fans in the stadium.  The tournament organizer did a great job to put together a last minute double substitute with Djokovic/Sampras against McEnroe/Haas.

Indian Wells Resort maybe the hotel of choice for the tournament.  I saw Haas, the tournament director, at the hotel lobby. And had a brief eye contact with Thiem, the subsequent champion, at the hotel entrance as he got ready to the stadium in the morning of the final.

After Indian Wells, this may be the year to make the ultimate tennis pilgrimage to Wimbledon.

 

Investing in REITs
By Ralph L Block

Many middle class look into rental property as they journey beyond mid-life.  Few talk about the nuts-and-bolts of tenant management, property management, its opportunity cost and its relative return on investment.   Different from buying a few shares of stock, a rental property is a larger and often illiquid investment with longer term impact. There is some risk and a bad tenant makes a bad day for you.  

REIT (Real Estate Investment Trust) is the closest liquid investment that is accessible and achieves similar investment diversification as buying a rental property without the nuts-and-bolts, and also without the same pride of home ownership.     

In its fourth edition,  this well-written, well-organized REIT book is perfect for new investors; and is a good refreshing course for seasoned ones.   Last revised in 2010, it gives an overview, the REIT categories, the investment principles, the how-to set up REIT portfolio, without getting into tons of charts nor complex math.

This book provides solid fundamentals towards investing in REIT which could be an alternative to owning rental property.

 

The Miracle of Mindfulness
by Thich Nhat Hanh

In this small book, Thich Nhat Hanh uses gentle stories and simple exercises on how to be more mindful and be conscious of the moment.  It starts with some simple breathing exercise, some simple tips to focus on the moment, and progresses through the deeper buddhist meditation experience.

I find the simple medication to be calming and am convinced that a daily meditation can sharpen the mind and the concentration in the daily hustle-rustle.

 

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January: Happy New Year

First week of the month, my daughter and I went to watch a beautiful lights show by the artist Bruce Monro. 

As the children went back to college, my spouse and I slid back to empty nester.  Australian Open came and gone, the miraculous 2017 and the slightly less but still spectacular 2018 did not repeat.  Towards the end of the month, we set up a raised garden bed which has been a gift sitting in the garage for years.  We planted the lovely herbs Rosemary, Thyme, Parsley, Cilantro, some Kale and some pepper seeds. The money spent on the garden soil, seeds and the plants could easily afford us a month or two of expenses in vegetables, not to mention the labor, the water and later the fertilizers.   This again reminds how little farmers earn, and yet play such an important a role in our society.

I finished reading two non-fictions.  The first book, written by ex-GM of Google China, covers and analyzes Artificial Intelligence (AI), a topic that everyone is curious about.  The other book, written by a physician and claimed the Pulitzer prize, covers a topic that people rather whisper about.

 

AI Superpowers: China, Silicon Valley, and the New World Order
by Kai-Fu Lee

The book has both the Chinese and English version.  I read the Chinese version.

Many of us are curious about “who would win the AI race?”, “how would AI affect the world?”, “how many jobs would be eliminated?”, and even further, “is human, as a species, going to become extinct?”  This book provides a comprehensive coverage of AI technology impact to the world, to the superpowers, and to each of us.

Once the GM of Google China, he decomposes the four success factors for AI: Data, Entrepreneur, Talents/Technicians, and Government; and provides a structural comparison how the two superpowers, China and United States, would compete with each other.   On a broader scheme of things, it provides a thought provoking analysis how AI would affect the society and its wealth distribution; and ends with a hypothesis how AI can play a role to enrich human life.

From his near death encounter with a deadly illness, the author reckons human future lies in our spirit of humanity and most importantly, our ability to love.

The Emperor of all maladies : A biography of cancer
by Siddhartha Mukherjee

How would a book on such a dire illness, win the Pulitzer Award?

The book is among the most engaging,  educational, and absorbing read of all the books I have read.   I can’t help but admiring how the author weaves narratives of the scary radical surgery, the poisonous chemo trials, the difficult battles against the tobacco industry and the serendipitous “invention” of mammogram and pap smear.

Far from brutally fearsome, this eloquent chronicle of cancer is full of humane spirit and surprisingly heartwarming, with its first documented appearances thousands of years ago, through the decades of battles to prevent and cure, to the latest gene mutation research of the illness.

Through the experience of Carla, a patient who survived, we cannot but realize the potential immortality of cancer with its prowess originated from the exact human capacity to grow, adapt spread and thrive.   It leaves us the question not if we will encounter cancer in our lives but when.

It ends with the author’s final meeting with another cancer patient, Germaine, who spent six years fighting, and finally found herself stare into an empty vault of resourcefulness and resilience.  Such is the chilly reality for the four-thousand-year-old war against the disease.

Rather than a defeatist, it leaves us with a profound insight into, and a deeper connection to the millions who has or will have an encounter with this emperor of all maladies – cancer.

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2017 – An Emotional Year

2017 has been a year with unusual highs and lows. Deep loss is difficult to describe, freak accidents test my mental fortitude and worry for loved ones is far more stressful.

In the world of tennis, 2017 is filled with surprise. It is probably the closest thing to miracle when Roger Federer (GOAT) won the Australian Open and the two tennis masters.  My husband and I were in Cloud number nine in Indian Wells, and we witnessed Federer winning the Indian Well Mater on a beautiful day in a full stadium. 

 

I believe most people need something to engage their time, and engage their mind. I work in a company which cares about the employees, their well being as well as their family. And I am lucky to have a reasonable job to  engage our mind.

Exercise is among the best medicine, and I exceed the requirement of 150 minutes of moderate exercise for most weeks.  I earn a “healthy” mind and body amidst difficult life moments.

I reminisce the dinner with high school friends, the lunch with college friends and the lunch with the coworkers of my first employer in this year.  These are the friendships that has lasted more than two decades, with long periods of minimal contacts when we have been busy with raising families or chasing career successes.  It is heartwarming that our relationship remains strong.  

My daughter were in Japan for a summer project; my son went on his first solo international trip to Toronto for a summer study.  2017 may be the last year prior to the empty nesting experience, and there are still so much I want to pass on to them in the remaining short timeframe.  At the same time, I look forward to spending time with my lifelong hobbies – tennis, exercise, hiking, reading and writing, helping others or just learning about new things.

 

 

I was in Hong Kong in June and had some really good family gatherings.  There was the hike with my brother at the Hong Kong Unesco Global Geopark on a hot and beautiful summer day.  And I spent a fair amount of time on the bedside of my mother.  

September 2017 has been my saddest month with the passing of my mother.  Whether it is better to obsess with loss or escape through routines, I do not know.  Modern life makes haste of life events as if our brain can switch on and off our emotion, like the advance of computer processing.  I return to work, return to school, return to daily routine within a week or two, while the loss is still so fresh and painful.  

The multiple heel bone fractures of my son created such a trauma that forced us to set IMG_20171024_185920aside the loss of my mother.  I had to deal with the heart wrenching moments of helplessness. My husband and I faced the busy reality of doctor visits, surgery, extra day care routines, extra nutrition and his rehabilitation. My son had to deal with school, the injury and the college application.  It has tested our stress tolerance level to the max.  Our health is being tested, and it is a relief that we stay healthy to deal with the hardship.

white-carnation2017 has been filled with unusual events. I experience in first person how losses stick in our mind so much more than gains.  2017 will be remembered as a difficult year of loss and injury after some personal loss and trauma in 2016.  When life is at a low, it can actually go lower and then lower; even in very low moments, there are a long list of valuable things that cannot be taken away.  It is such a reminder for us to treasure all the things around.   The near-miracles witnessed in the world of tennis unexpectedly give us hope that anything is possible.

 

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A cool July

2017 is a miraculous year in the world of tennis.  After the magical Australian Open Win,  the Federer Express kept the dream alive as he won his 8th Wimbledon Title.  At this dinosaur age of 35, Federer became the very first man to win Wimbledon 8 times.  I am still ecstatic that miracles do happen if we believe in them

Ironically, modern life moves on fast and faster with internet, it is hard to slow motion these joyous and inspiring moments.  I am learning to pause and soak in happy moments, when they come my way.  

I am not complaining, and last two weeks of July has been great too.

My teenager went to Toronto for a 3-week summer program. I experienced a glimpse of empty nesting.   When kids are not around, time travels at a different pace, there is just more time, it takes some getting used to, and it is nice.   My husband and I went outside, watched the movie of “Spiderman” and “Wonder Woman” and took on a 3-day National Park itinerary.

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Day 1 – Mono Lake, California


Mono Lake is among places I want to go since seeing its pictures.  It is about 5 hours’ drive via the Sonora Pass.  Sonora pass is the second highest highway pass at the Sierra Nevada, after the Tioga pass.  My marginal acrophobia does not help me to enjoy the scenic route, I don’t dare to turn towards the striking mountain range.  

I like the peacefulness of Mono County.  Mono Lake is huge.  The museum is worth the visit and the 1-hour guided tour around South Tufa of the lake is very special. I must say the lake looks different from the picturesque and mystic image on postcards.  I wish I would have more time to walk around the lake at sunset or sunrise.  That must be beautiful.

Mammoth Lakes Juniper Springs Resort is just about ½ hour from Mono Lake.  It is a bit pricey considering we just sleep for the night,  and the ski-in-ski-out convenience does not give much in summer months.

Day 2 – Mammoth Lakes, Devils Postpile National Monument, Rainbow Falls
At this time, shuttle bus is the only way getting to the Devils Postpile National Monument. It is the second day that the Monument opens for the season, so we trade the Mammoth Lakes Gondola ride with a visit to the Monument.

I can feel the elevation of 2000+ meters.  We hike from the shuttle stop to the Devils Postpile and then its top. The rock formation is unique at Devils Postpile National Monument, and reminds me of the special rock at the Hong Kong Unesco Global Geopark.  From there, we take a moderate hike to the Rainbow Fall.  Rainbow Fall is a site of beauty with rainbow, the rock and the waterfall.


(We end up waiting for 40+ minutes for a shuttle to take us back to the Mammoth Lakes Ski Resort, not to mention the very expensive $4 ice cream drumstick from the store.)

The 3-hour hike is a great way to feel refreshed from day-in-day-out responsibilities.

Yosemite Valley Lodge is near the west entrance of Yosemite National Park, and is about 2 hour drive from Mammoth Lakes, via Tioga Pass.  At an elevation of 3000+ meters, the Sierra Mountain Range is striking and, for me, fearsome.

Day 3 – Yosemite Vernal Falls
The room at Yosemite Valley Lodge connects us to the meadow and the redwoods.  With the comfort of a hotel room, we enjoy the nature just like we are camping out there.  We take the Yosemite shuttle and do a 2-hour hike to the Vernal Falls Footbridge.  As we hike up the Falls, the trail becomes misty, the path becomes steep and uneven.   We do not quite make it to the top this time.

The Lodge has an outdoor swimming pool with a view of the Yosemite Falls,  we take a dip before our 4-hour drive home.

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So grateful to be still in shape to do some good hiking in 3 consecutive days.  

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A Fabulous Tennis Weekend

After the shortest month of February, March often feels like the longest month.  For three years, we has taken a weekend trip to watch the Indian Wells Tennis Tournament, the closest ATP tennis event. Often cited as the fifth slam, Indian Wells Tennis Garden has the second largest tennis stadium with nearly half a million of spectators every year, even more than the French Open.


Located in Southern California desert among golf resorts, tropical gardens, fine restaurants in a nice quiet neighborhood, Indian Wells makes a vacation paradise in March.  The weather is dry and the day could be blazing hot, though still mild when compared to 120
°F in summer months.  The tennis tournament spans over two weeks.  In 2014, we went there in the first weekend, there was hustle and bustle, some long lines, in return, we saw many tennis stars.  We switched to the championship weekend with more weighty matches, but there was no guarantee which players would end up playing.  Regardless, we always have a great time.  

IMG_20170318_115114Larry Ellison bought the tournament for 100 millions and has done amazing things with his money power.   Indian Wells has become one of the world’s premier tennis venues, attracting top players from both men’s and women’s professional tours.  Over the years, we have seen Federer, Nadal, Djokovic, Raonic, Nishikori, Wawrinka, Williams and many tennis stars play single or double in the tournament.  The tournament experience has got better and better.  Just this year, 22 new restaurants have been added including Spago by Wolfgang Puck, the Melissa market with fresh salad, Dave’s dog house with 2-michelin stars? hotdog.  For $150 extra, one can watch stadium 1 match, while dining inside the Spago restaurant.  New and contemporary restroom facilities have been added, which almost extinguishes any lines.  And there are accessible water stations to keep us hydrated.IMG_20170318_153617

When the 2017 draw was released, Federer was in the Quarter of Death widely agreed by the players to be the toughest in history.  We had no expectation to see him in the championship weekend.  Then the news got better and better as Federer beat Nadal soundly in the fourth round, and he would play on the Friday quarter-final.

We spent more bucks for tickets to his quarterfinal match with Kyrgios.  After 5 hours of driving, we arrived at the Tennis Garden just in time, to be told that Kyrgios withdrew. Federer showed up in the stadium for an interview and “tried” to entertain us with his funny singing video.  

His semi-final match on Saturday with Sock, US #1, did not disappoint.  I got to the stadium early so as to be part of the roaring welcome as the players walked out to the court. It was like  rock star entry to a concert filled with tens of thousands of fans.  No matter who Federer played against, you always felt it in the air that people wanted him to win.  His play was mesmerizing, he was just so skilled, so poised and beautiful to watch.  Anyone loves tennis would love to see him play.  As a recreational tennis player, I knew that even in super slow motion, it was impossible to play his shots, let alone in a match condition when the ball was traveling often at 70+ miles per hour.  His match was like a movie with surprises at any moment in time, keeping the spectators engaged.  The first set was pretty one-sided, but the second set got to tiebreaker.  At matcIMG_20170318_123312h point, the anticipation was palatable and it was pleasantly converted to a 6-1, 7-6 win.  The momentous and joyful cheers throughout the stadium made the best human vocals .  We enjoyed the fighting and aggressive play of Sock, but it was obvious everyone was happier with a Federer win.

The all-Swiss men’s final awaited on Sunday, we waited long under the blazing sun at 95 °F as the all-Czech women’s final lasted over 3 hours with plenty of twists and turns.  When the men’s final started, either we got used to the heat or it was no longer as hot. The final was exciting to watch, both Stan and Roger played well and had their chances.  The power play of Stan was intimidating and could blow opponents off the court any day.  The skill and variety of Roger continued to impress, and it was humbling to see how he could still improve over the years.  His shot making went from powerful gust to soft breeze as he transitioned from baseline rally to net volley. On any day, a power player can beat a more skilled player; in this championship, Roger got the 6-4, 7-5 win.  As the championship point played out with a volley winner from Roger, the stadium erupted with a joyful roar and thousands of hands up in the air, it was a scene to freeze in memory and remember forever.  

The trophy presentation was memorable.  Stan choked back as he congratulated Roger, and their brotherly affection was quite on display.  Tommy Haas, in his first year as the tournament director, then presented the trophy to Roger, his close friend on the tour.  It was so special.   Roger did his graceful speech.  Everybody thanked Larry and everybody.   Roger then hoisted the beautiful and heavy crystal trophy.  His dream run, after 6-month injury break, continues to provide one of the greatest inspiration way beyond the sports of tennis.

When Roger last won the Indian Wells, it was 2012, same year he won Wimbledon #7.  Could this be a good omen for his 2017 Wimbledon campaign?  Please let the fairy tale continue.

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