Few in the States follow the Inter Miami pre-season world tour. Its stop in Hong Kong was a PR disaster for the pre-season. The no-show of Messi and the seemingly lack of empathy towards his fans have turned a Messi-mania in my beloved city to a Messi-mess. After a few days of ubiquitous media coverage, the government demanded explanations, the organizer agreed to a 50% refund, and the sports authority in China canceled two upcoming exhibition matches of the Argentina team in China.
The reaction of the city dwellers, the organizer and the government are surprising. I wrote an article to the SCMP, the top English newspaper in Hong Kong, with the intent to those who still felt anguish about the situation. HongKongers hated to be disappointed, even worse, hated to lose face 唔俾面, and hated to be caught as dumb consumers 水鱼. Looking back, there is the silver lining with the unity of the city in their anger and frustration. I have missed the unity of the city in the last many years.
SCMP is a Hong Kong English-language newspaper founded in 1903, has a daily circulation of 100,000+ readers and an online version. SCMP published my article about “Give Messi the benefit of doubt” here, with some minor publishing edits and some related pictures/links.
Here is the original version.
Title: Reason and Respect : Messi deserves the benefits of doubts
The 2022 Qatar World Cup was a fairy tale moment for Messi. My family has followed Messi & his matches since. After defeating France in the final, he was often booed when he played for PSG in France. At age 36, he joined Inter Miami in a city of many Spanish speaking people. This opinion is for those who are still suffering from the anguish of the Messi no-show.
In sports, injury happens, fatigue happens. Messi is an “old” man in the soccer world. He played so many matches last year. He has not been close to 100% for at least a few months.
Soccer is not even in the top 3 sports in the US. Yet, Messi created a Messi Mania last year when he and Inter Miami won matches one after another. Many bought the highly inflated stadium tickets, drove hours only to find out Messi could not play. While disappointed, most understood and enjoyed the game. It is unfortunate that he had a no-show in Hong Kong. Soccer is a team sport, not a solo concert. The game carries on with or without Messi.
Inter Miami was ranked the lowest in the league for a reason. Often, their games were even hard to watch. I thought the Hong Kong team had a real chance to win. Sadly, the Inter Miami team never trailed, and the Hong Kong team lost comfortably. That was the only game Inter Miami won on this world tour. If you were a coach, what decision would you make? Would you risk the stars?
There were many theories about disrespect. Do people know Messi rarely showed up in US press conferences? He arrived in Hong Kong on a long flight after losing the last game six to zero, in Saudi Arabia. He was likely not 100%. Give him a break. He is not a PR pro.
With the no-show, the Hong Kong exhibition achieved international coverage on CNN, Times, CNBC and more. The US media covered the complaints from HK CEO Mr. Lee and the HK fans; and was overall empathetic.
This is no doubt a PR disaster for Inter Miami. Hong Kong receives some sympathy. Let’s wish Messi a quick recovery, a great season and show up in HK soon.
For the super fans, there will be an Argentina vs Chile game in June in New Jersey. His show up is no guarantee.
Toastmasters, a global organization about communication excellence, is celebrating 100 years. Toastmasters has global presence, with over 200,000 members and counting. I served as president of one toastmaster club for two terms. I remain active in two Toastmaster clubs including the AI club, the first toastmaster club with an AI themes. It is fitting to combine communication excellence and the latest AI technology as Generative AI storms into our lives, like no other technology before. Below is the speech script of my 7-minutes speech about AI challenges and how everyone can become an AI ambassador to have more people participating in the AI future.
I have been an active Toastmaster member and served as president of a Toasterster club for two-terms
We wake up with water, electricity and the internet. What if I decide not to use any of them? From where I live, the nearest body of water is over 5 miles. I would walk without Google Maps, no electric car, in the dark, to fill up buckets of water I need for the day. It would take over 4 hours for the round-trip. Technology has made our lives better. We have taken for granted people use helpful technology all the time.
To my AI club fellows, I would like to share the obstacles facing AI adoption. By being aware of it, we can concretely set plans to address these obstacles.
I’m leading an initiative focused on upskilling and enabling AI, particularly GenAI, at all levels, to as many as possible for the company . Every single day, I am humbled “people are not rethinking how their work and life can be improved with AI technology”. The reality is, technology adoption requires intentional effort to bring people along. Why is that? There are technical obstacles and psychological resistances.
Starting with the technical challenges,
We live in places with cutting edge technology. Do you know just about 65% of the global population are online (w/i internet). AI depends both on electricity and the internet. That means around 3 billion who do not have reliable internet, likely cannot benefit from AI.
AI is intimidatingly complex. Some techies unconsciously throw out jargon. Terms like LLM, gpu, tpu, langchain, multimodal, neural network, encoder, decoder, transformer, hallucinations…just scared people away.
Concerns about data privacy, biased input and security are real. Can you trust technology? When to trust , when not to trust AI?
We develop strong opinions and emotions about things too. Every new technology challenges our comfort zone and injects the fear of the unknown, fear of mistakes and fear of losses.
Many people fear errors or lack of control when using AI for tasks traditionally done by humans. It is natural we are uncomfortable with machines generating creative content or making decisions in their personal lives.
Elon Musk said “We will have for the first time something that is smarter than the smartest human. There will come a point where no job is needed.“. He may have spoken his mind. How would you react about AI replacing human jobs and YOUR jobs?
When Singapore Prime Minister Lee was recently interviewed by Bloomberg, he said “There are a lot of things in AI that we don’t know. We don’t know where it is going. The researchers do not know where it is going.”. How could you manage the unknown?
You belong to this ai club toastmasters. I think you can do something. You can start with one thing. Here are some suggestions.
Listen to others’ concerns in adopting the technology.
Share how AI has benefited you
Invite their curiosity to learn more.
Thomas Edison brought electric light to part of Manhattan in 1882. Even 4 decades later, only half of all homes in the US had electric power. Many Americans still lit their homes with gas lights and candles.
I invite you to stay aware of these Ai technical and psychological obstacles, it is as easy as starting with one thing. Take the time to listen to concerns, share how AI works well for you and invite curiosity from others. If you all do at least one thing, AI can be in more hands. We don’t need to wait 50 years.
Particularly in technology, “the” new kid on the block is to be admired and loved. We like knowing about the new kid so do the media like reporting them for the audience. OpenAI is arguably “the” technology story of this year. The recent ousting and reinstating of its CEO Sam Altman in OpenAI has added to the storyline. Just before Thanksgiving, there came a failed coup in the boardroom. We are fortunate to live in these modern days where no-one dies in the process in a coup. Being THE new kid, there has been more forgiveness and relatively few punish the company as a result of the coup.
We unconsciously ask for more from the other players such as Google or Amazon or many others “once-the”. These other players now belong to the “one of the” club. Last week Google announced its latest, if not its greatest, multimodal AI: Gemini. Surprisingly, the magical six-minute demo “Hands on with Demo : interacting with multi-modal AI” has attracted quite a bit of criticism. It was a concern that the demo is not a real-time demo of how the actual multimodal AI product behaves (yet). Rather tweaks here and there to help the narration and to show what is possible with the technology. When was the last marketing demo not piecing things together to make a more impressive narrative?
Transition happens when one changes from “the” to “one of the”, or from “one of the” to “the”.
I particularly worry about potential transitions of the US being “the” superpower to the possibility of “one of the”. Will there be more “wars” to resist “the” to “one of the”?
I particularly feel these transitions as the years go by : transition from being “the” most important person to the children to “one of the”; transition from “the” youngest in a group to “one of the”; transition from “one of the” oldest to “the” oldest in a group.
Mastering these transitions makes life good. Mastering these transitions among the geopolitics make the world more peaceful.
Set in the backdrop of the computer game industry from the 90s, the novel weaves in the novel of three co-founders creatively designing, coding and producing computer games. Not only do they creatively produce unique games for the gamers, they find themselves needing to creatively live through the different lowlights, and highlights along the way. There is always a new life after the “game over ”, as long as you keep playing.
You’ll enjoy the read of this beautiful story about growing up, love and friendship, whether you play or create computer games.
I recently joined an exciting AI-themed toastmaster club. This week, I gave an impromptu speech on “how AI would affect how we consume information?”. I seized the opportunity to talk about how humans, not technology, can keep their say in the era of internet, social media and AI.
Many are uncomfortable with new technology or simply changes. Surprisingly, the same “many” often give technology even more say on what they think and how they think. For those who are uncomfortable with AI or new technology, the following are written for you to keep your say when you consume information on the internet, on social media, or in the future from AI.
Is it fact or opinion? If you are not sure, take it as the opinion of the writer.
Is it news or entertainment? If you are not sure, categorize it as entertainment, and you don’t want to interpret most things as news on YouTube videos, Facebook live streams.
Is it confirmation bias, or a discovery of new perspectives? You can better tame confirmation bias when you are open to discovering what you don’t know. It is my opinion that humans are flawed and that we cannot be right all the time.
Do supermen and villains ever switch roles? If your information channels constantly portray the same country/party/persons are righteous, and the others are evil, it is time to read the other side of the story from other channels? There is no rush to take sides.
Does your current stand influence you the most to decide the sides to take in new event(s)? Be mindful if you let your existing stand make the decisions for you in new events. With the tsunami of information out there, you are likely going to find information supporting your current stand, even when the information is fake or opinionated. It is my opinion that it is beneficial to read different sides of the same stories. There is no rush to take sides.
Is your emotion ahead of your head to decide? We all have our emotional moments. When the emotion subsides, you have the right to change after going through the emotional reactions.
Are you ready to learn about history, cultures, and religions in the world? If this is a NO, it is my opinion that you are in no place to have a bad take on other countries, cultures or religions.
How much, with or without AI, have you enabled technology (internet, social media, online videos) to take over how you think, how you live, and what you do?
Reading is among the best ways to keep your heart and mind healthy. I feel quite sad to see books are becoming so cheap, and e-books even cheaper in the era of inflation and information overflow. You can help the authors and, even more so, yourself to find good books to read.
Radical Candor by Kim Scott I would not trade the fun of reading books, to a productivity play. Still, I tested the productivity hype about AI’s large language models. ChatGPT happily returned a clear summary to my prompt: ‘What is the book “Radical candor” by Kim Scott in a nutshell?’. I shortened its summary to this within minutes: “Radical Candor” is a practical guide for leaders and managers to foster better communication and relationships within their teams. It’s about delivering honest feedback with empathy and respect. The book provides numerous real-life examples and actionable advice on how to implement these principles of radical candor in the workplace to create a more effective and harmonious working environment.
The Demon-Haunted World: Science as a Candle in the Dark by Ann Druyan and Carl Sagan I wish this book was on the K-12 reading list. Filtering the information overload is like finding the straw of truth in a great ocean of confusion and conundrum.The baloney detection kits in this book are tools that can help you and the future generation in the much-needed critical thinking.
The things you can see only when you slow down by Haemin Sunim If you are looking for insights to “Why am I so busy?”, “When you are feeling low?”, “Being right isn’t important; Being Happy Together is”, “When you look for your calling”. My favorite chapter is “Three liberating insights” – people are not as interested in me as I had always believed; not everyone has to like me; and most things we do for others are in fact for ourselves. I keep coming back to some chapters in the book.
Message in a Matchbox – Memories of a Childhood Tehran by Sara Fashandi The title said it all. The stories of her brother from the author’s memories grow on me as I read on. Born poor, the characters have to overcome life obstacles to improve conditions for the family. At times tragic and emotional, this is a storied portrait of his brother’s childhood in Tehran. I recommend this book to see that part of the world.
The Tale of the Unknown Island by Jose Saramago I love this book and have read the 51-page twice. It is not a children’s book, though the children can enjoy it. This charming story shares how we all are isolated in our own island, and we all are on our own island until we find connections with purpose and love. I enjoyed both this book as well as “Seeing” by the same author.
* José de Sousa Saramago is a Portuguese author and the recipient of the 1998 Nobel Prize in Literature. His parables, sustained by imagination, compassion and irony, [with which he] continually enables us once again to apprehend an elusory reality.
Seeing by Jose Saramago A sequel from the book ‘Blindness’, which was made into movies. It starts with the majority of voters throwing blank ballots in the election. As the government reacts to it as a crisis, conspiracy and sedition, the story ends with the death of arguably the two best characters. It paints a vivid picture of how the world has become, how much we accept blindness to many things around us, and how much we still choose to see. It is a gem that is waiting for your discovery. It is a book that I would like to read again.
Dopamine nation : finding balance in the age of indulgence by Anna Lembke Through the lived experience of the patients and her first hand experience of guilt pleasure turning into addiction, the author highlights the delicate balance between pain and pleasure. Self discipline becomes a thing of the past when immediate pleasure is within reach in so many ways and modern day comfort gives rise to more indulgence and addiction . Maintaining the pain-pleasure balance is essential for our health and well being. A quick read recommended to those who want to overcome addiction or bad habits.
The WEIRDest people in the world by Joseph Henrich A weird book, until you realize that WEIRD refers to West, Educated, Rich, Industrialized, Democratic. How could the minority people make all the big decisions for the world? There are so many decisions made by very few people and we all live in the aftermath of those decisions. This book attempts to give an answer. Agree or not, there is some interesting stuff in it, such as why we moved away from marriage within families, or why some cultures worked better with strangers than others, how the spread of Christianity triggered the need to create contracts with strangers. This book can help kill some time.
Trust by Hernan Diaz Andrew Bevel was the protagonist who evolved into a mystical legend through a series of well-timed investments in the 1920s. The book has three versions of Andrew and his wife Mildred. This clever plot has a little bit of the 1950 classic “Rashomon” or the 2022 Netflix drama “Inventing Anna”. The story lost some momentum halfway in, and in the end, it has left the readers some open questions. Overall a good story.
NYC does not have a signature itinerary to show you have been there. It attracts visitors from around the world. There are so many events and places that are tied to NYC, the Met Gala for fashion, the tennis US open, the wall street for finance, the Broadway for shows, the nobody-can-remember-every-station subways, the Central Park, the Washington Square, the bagels, and the list goes on and on. The “I 💖NY” sign says it all. At the same time, there are the smells of the homeless, the smell of the trash, the have-been-cleaned-up-but-still-dirty subways, the scary rodents. The stairs and the uneven grounds annoy me. Visiting NYC is to experience the contrast, the wealth gap, the diversity. NYC has a lot to offer, like it or not, I never run out of interesting things and places to visit every time in NYC.
We went to NYC as a family some years ago, with the primary objective of visiting famous colleges in nearby Boston. We were last in NYC in the summer of 2019 to visit my eldest child who just moved to NYC after college, and conveniently went to watch the US open. After four pandemic years, our family of four were together in NYC this October. So much has changed. Now my spouse and I were the visitors, while our two children have become New Yorkers.
The first day, we strolled across the central park and SOHO. The CheeseBoat Georgian restaurant, near SOHO, served us a surprisingly good meal. We would definitely want to go back another day. There are many coffee shops in NYC, and the Spanish latte at the % Arabica is the drink of the drink. We had dinner at the COTE Korean steakhouse. COTE is a one-star Michelin restaurant. Its butcher’s feast is the signature ready-to-grill-in-front-of-you steak package. It has four different types of steak in different flavors. We worked our way from the most mild flavor to the Galbi steak. Together with other side dishes, it made a delicious, rich and fulfilling feast to celebrate my spouse’s birthday. It was a day of culinary enjoyment.
The next day started with dim sum in ChinaTown. When we travel, we always make time to visit some Chinese restaurants to support their business. We arrived at the first Dim Sum Palace, but there was nobody inside, and the neighborhood was average. We thought it would be better to try another Dim Sum Place in ChinaTown and we enjoyed the meal. Our walk to the World Trade Center memorials helped burn some calories. The 911 museum was the only museum we visited on this trip. It did a comprehensive job to record the devastating losses of the day, but not quite enough to reflect. The US politicians continue to throw money to fight wars, sell weapons and adopt sanctions/isolations to deal with rival countries. Could there be a better and kinder tactic from the world’s only superpower?
After the 911 visit, we walked to take the free Staten Ferry ride, a free ride to enjoy the Manhattan landscape and the symbolic statue of liberty. It was a warm day with a clear and blue sky. On our way back from Staten Island to Manhattan South Ferry, we caught the sunset at the perfect moment. There are many beautiful things that are there for free, and this was yet another example.
On our third day, we wandered around the West Village, NYC, SOHO and NOHO (South and North of Houston). There are many affluent neighborhoods in NYC. The affluent West Village has a different vibe, less of a hustle and bustle that is often felt in the city. We visited the three lives and company bookstore to read some books. It was not a large bookstore, but we found books that were quite interesting. We strolled down Bleecker street and enjoyed our lunch at the Jack’s wife Freda restaurant. This restaurant has five locations in NYC and seemingly a hot spot for tourists and locals. It serves Mediterranean breakfast, lunch and dinner in one restaurant. We thoroughly enjoyed the fried Zucchini, the duck bacon and the Peri Peri chicken.
The Grove Court and the building in the Friends TV series at Bedford was nearby and we decided to take a photo shot. Have you pondered what brought Cappuccino to America? Cafe Reggio, opened in 1927, is the answer. The cafe is still in business. We enjoyed our cappuccino and latte in an outdoor casual seating. Located next to NYU, it made for a good meeting point for professors, students, and tourists. Down the street is Washington Square Park. I did not recall any park with so many benches and sitting areas for everyone. Washington Park is almost like an outpost of NYU which crosses over the SOHO and NOHO (South and North of Houston). The Lafayette and Broadway streets are good streets for shoppers, with its shops, restaurants and coffee shops. The LeVain Bakery serves the richest chocolate chip cookies. The Lady M has arguably the best crepe.
We did not catch any broadway shows though we discovered the telecharge lottery draw for discounted show tickets. Instead, we enjoyed dinner time with our children at the COTE Korean steakhouse, the Hearth. The best of all dinners, without a doubt, has been the homemade dinner at our daughter’s place. The Hearth sets itself up as a fine dining restaurant. The size is fairly small. The dishes are healthy and delicious. The ambience is relaxing. It made a good choice for those who are willing to pay $$ for a light dinner.
NYC reminds us of the wealth gaps and opportunity gaps. It is a melting pot of all kinds. It is the place to be for young and up starters. My two children live in Queens and Manhattan respectively. A sizable chunk of their paycheck is spent on rental and the essentials. They complain that they do not have enough money. I’m proud they work hard to afford and live the NYC experience.
Quebec City is a picturesque city. The Vieux-Quebec area (Old Quebec) is a must go.
Our first visit to Old Quebec was in the late morning with the plan to start from near Rue du Petit Champlain and walk our way up to the Chateau Frontenac. The narrow streets, lined with cafes, restaurants, coffee shops and quaint shops, offered a lot for us to explore. Each street made an attraction on its own. We probably have repeated a few streets, and felt totally at ease of getting lost in the relaxing stroll. We felt a good vibe of art and culture. Lunch-time, we randomly picked a restaurant, along the street decorated with umbrellas above. Their onion soup, poutines and other dishes did not disappoint. It was as if there could be no bad restaurants in the area, only crowded and more crowded restaurants. The after-lunch coffee at La Maison Smith, a popular chain store in the area, tasted better than Starbuck coffee. There were a few hundred steps to climb to reach the Cap Diamant and more steps to reach the Chateau Frontenac. It was a good climb. We were tired but not exhausted. We could have made stops at coffee shops with mouth-watering bakeries, cafes, and ice cream (cream glacier) along the way. Uber was also convenient and cost less than 20 CAD between the more touristy areas. We ate at Chateau Frontenac for an early dinner. What could be more satisfying than the delicious dishes of mushroom ravioli, the goat cheese & spinach salad, the scallop and foie gras served at the magnificent Fairmont Chateau, alongside the sunset. It was also our daughter’s birthday. It felt perfect.
There is less crowd in the morning at Old Quebec. I started the next morning with the ferry ride from Quebec city to Levis. It was a 12-minute ferry ride. There was no need to fight the crowd. I could take as many pictures of Chateau Frontenac and Cap Diamant as I wish on the ferry. A quick disembarkation and embarkation, I was back to the same ferry heading back to Quebec city. Wandering around the street maze was more enjoyable in the early morning. If I were traveling alone, I could easily spend multiple days in Vieux-Quebec, starting the day on a ferry ride, wandering around the old town, checking out the arts and crafts, and then finding a quiet spot in a coffee shop to watch people and do some writing.
We joined a 90 minute cruise on the narrow channel of the Lawrence river to enjoy the Quebec City landscope. Most of the time, we were simply relaxing under the warm sun, on and off listening to the cruise guide telling some histories of the city. It was a nice way to learn more about the city. The cruise cost over 50 CAD, became rather expensive when compared to the 7.95 CAD round trip ferry ride between Quebec City and Levis. I would recommend fellow travelers to try the ferry ride.
Our airbnb was a few minutes from the Saint-Roch area. There are coffee shops, boutique shops, pubs and restaurants to hang out with friends. If you were around that area, it would be worth walking around.
Following our cruise guide’s recommendation, we took the 20 minute Uber ride to visit Montmorency falls in the morning before we left Quebec City. Our cruise guide told us that Montmorency Falls is 100 feet higher than Niagara Falls. Wasn’t it impressive? We arrived at the top of the Falls. Looking down and looking across, it was not that tall. After some Google searches, we discovered the Yosemite falls in California were ten times taller. A concrete-made suspension bridge provided a unique view of the top of the waterfall. I walked non-stop across the bridge with my acrophobia. I did not have the heart to watch the waterfall. There are 487 well constructed steps built along the hill with multiple pavilions providing an abundance of vista points to watch the waterfall at different heights. There is also the option of a cable car that takes you to the top and back. There are trains and buses taking groups of tourists. Nature may not have granted the grandeur to Montmorency Falls. The infrastructure and effort to make the fall accessible have shown admirable human prowess. The Montmorency made a great stop outside Quebec City.
Homelessness has become a global problem. It is a sad situation. In parks, on narrow alleys, or along main streets, we could find them. Quebec City is a beautiful city. It is safe. I recommend you stay in the bounds of the touristy areas. At night, it is more comfortable to spend time at your hotels or airbnb.
Canada is a beautiful country. The province of Quebec is the place to feel like in Europe while staying within the continent of North America. Three times the size of France, with French as the official language, I have more than once thought I was in Europe while visiting Montreal and especially in Quebec City. Adding in the artistic murals, the narrow alleys, the cobblestone streets, the little prince and the TinTin characters on display, Quebec feels more European than France.
Montreal is a welcoming city with clean air and an easy metro/bus transportation system. This is the city that you can visit without much advanced planning. It is a family friendly city without the hustle and bustle of New York city. There are also pubs, coffee places and gathering places for those who are interested in hanging out with others. In the three days we were there, we visited the idyllic Mount Royal Park, Notre Dame Basilica area, Old Port, Old Montreal, the Botanical Garden and even spared an early afternoon to enjoy a high tea at Cardinal Teahouse in the Mile End area.
Montreal Old Port is a nice place to visit any time of the day. We arrived in the early evening. The Ferris Wheel ride was a delightful ride to enjoy the old port in the most relaxing manner. The nearby Voiles en Voiles adventure park was already closed but the Urban Zipline was still in operation. My daughter took up the zipline challenge. With some imagination, the zipline was a “mission impossible” experience as she zipped from a building, in the twilight, over the waterfront, amidst the exclamations of the tourists and locals on the ground. The old port and the surrounding area came alive at night, with many restaurants to choose from.
The Olympic Park and the Botanical Garden are next to each other. At 165 meters high with a 45-degree angle, the Montréal Tower is the tallest inclined tower in the world. It towers over the Olympic stadium and its presence can be felt across from the Botanical Garden. We set out to visit the Botanical Garden to discover the amazing living plant sculptures, only to discover that the sculptures were no longer in exhibit. We were not too disappointed as the garden has such a beautiful landscape subdivided into mesmerizing oasis of China Garden, Japan Garden, Rose Garden. There were the night shows of the Garden of Light in the Botanical Garden with decorated lanterns in different shapes of lotus flowers, bees, butterflies. The night show was included in the day admission, and we highly recommended it.
China-themed oasis inside the Botanical Garden
Bagel debate – NYC vs Montreal
We have heard about the bagel debate between Montreal and New York City. The St-Viateur bagel has been in the bagel business since 1957. We ordered a bagel with cream cheese, and a “lox” bagel one morning. These Montreal bagels were really good. The bagel was very soft, and there was a thick layer of cream cheese. It turned out the cream cheese was less heavy than the American version. There is nothing to lose from trying food that is hot in a debate.
Chinatown, more like an alley of Chinese restaurants within a short distance from the Notre Dame Basilica, was a pleasant surprise. On a Friday evening, the Chinese restaurants in Chinatown were pretty full. Many diners were not Chinese. They seemed to enjoy the food, didn’t mind the noise level, and made a lot of noise themselves. It had such a lively and modern vibe around the area. It made such a good model for other Chinatowns to be more inviting to people from all kinds of backgrounds. Good job to Chinatown, Montreal.
We visited the Notre Dame Basilica, the arguably most popular site to visit in Old Montreal, just before we left the city.
Montreal is the poutine capital of the world and don’t leave Montreal without trying it.
In the province of Quebec, Quebec City and Montreal are the most visited cities. How would the two cities compare? We would soon find out in the Quebec City Impressions.
Travel is an enjoyment. Traveling to new places with family makes the experience many times better. Traveling to new cities with family celebrating birthdays in fine restaurants are moments to cherish for the lifetime. We traveled to Montreal, Quebec City and New York City to celebrate two birthdays.
Quebec City train station looks more like a castle, few amenities inside.
Transportation Montreal and NYC both have decent public transportation systems. Quebec City is best explored by walking around. Uber rides are just a few clicks away in these cities, and they are relatively inexpensive. VIA Rail Canada offers decent rides between Canadian Cities. These trains are punctual in departure but tend to run behind on arrival, unlike the EuroRail.
Recommended Eateries Montreal: There is no shortage of great restaurants, also try the “snack” such as poutines, crepes, St. Viateur bagels, local breakfast and La Maison Smith coffee in Quebec cities. We also recommend the Restaurant Bonaparte (reservation needed), Jardin Nelson restaurant, Cardinal Teahouse.
Layered tofuat @Bonaparte, MontrealDuck Leg @Jardin Nelson, Vieux QuebecSmoked Meat Crepes Chateau Frontenac, Quebec City
Fish & Poutines @London JackRoasted BeefBeef Tartare
Zucchini @Jack’s Wife Freda, NYCDuck BaconPeri Peri Chicken
Without a doubt, the best meal in this trip went to the home made dinner by our daughter serving us hot and healthy chicken pot pie and roasted eggplants.
There is no direct flight from Cappadocia/Kayseri to Pamukkale/Denizli. Cappadocia to Pamukkale takes over 11 hours by bus, and it is an overnight bus with stops and non-reclining chairs. It is a strange situation considering Cappadocia and Pamukkale are both popular tourist spots in Turkey. The best way to connect the two touristy spots is by an indirect flight via Istanbul. The driver picked us up in a very spacious Mercedes Benz van, the seating reminded me of limousines pickup when I traveled for business ages ago. There was a beautiful sunset, on a clear sky with cumulus clouds. At sunset, the clouds were dotted with shiny golden borders and they looked like small islands spreaded around a calm lake.
Pamukkale, the Cotton Castle, has a completely different vibe than Cappadocia. Cappadocia reminds us of ruggedness and the history of persecution and hardship at an altitude of 1100 meters. Pamukkale comes across as a relaxed rural village with green plains and mountains at the horizons. It has a calming effect. After an hour, we arrived at the Cotton House and were ready to explore the next morning.
Ruins
Turkey has a rich history. Do you know that Troy, the Greek Myth of the Trojan war, is in modern-day Turkey? There are quite a number of ruins. We visited two of them while in Pamukkale : the Hierapolis-Pamukkale and the Aphrodisias, both UNESCO heritage sites dated in 2nd and 3rd BC. If ruins are not your cup of tea, it can be more interesting if you ponder what to expect to have a glimpse of their livelihood over thousands of years ago. What would be the same? What would be the difference? What has survived? What has become unrecognizable? How much damage was a result of nature or a result of war? Why would the city be abandoned?
Hierapolis theater
The Hierapolis ruins, dated 2nd century BC and abandoned in the 14th century, had most of the items one can think of for a typical city – the tombs/cemetery area outside of the city, the city gates, the gathering places for religion, i.e. the Cathedral, the city plaza for people to gather, and for other entertainment i.e. the Theatre. As we entered the city, there were public latrines. In those days, people sat next to each other on a bench-like setup to take care of their business and without a good sewage system, you could imagine the pungent smell around the area. It was rather understandable that public baths (hamam) were also nearby. The Cathedral, the city plaza were much destroyed, and hardly recognizable. As we walked up, we went to a place for people to worship where the bulls were gassed to death, and any surviving priests from the fumes were to enter into the “holy” place of Pluto, the god of death. If the people were coming to watch an event in the theater, the capacity and the structural design of the theater were not that different from the modern day theater. However, it was apparent that the evolution has brought up more comfort than even the royal families back then. Ha, we only need to live long enough to experience the luxury of today’s billionaires.
Aphrodisias
With another day to spare, we arranged to have a taxi to take us to Afrodisias ancient city dated in the Greek Hellenistic periods (~1st century). The Aphrodisias ancient city is slightly over an hour of highway drive from Pamukkale. We passed by a few cities and the Mount Honaz before arriving at the entrance of the ancient city. Aphrodisias has been better preserved than Hierapolis ruins and more effort to reconstruct this ancient city, once populated with over 10,000 people. The temple of Aphrodisias has beautiful pillars, carvings and decorations that have survived close to two thousand years of battles and empires. A bit beyond the stadium, there was a nearby stadium, with a bit less capacity than the theater in Hierapolis. It has been quite well preserved. Walking on, there was the Hadronic Hamam, which has become hardly recognizable after all these centuries. Next to the Hamam, there has been the reconstruction of the city park, with a 170m long pool and a lot of spaces mirroring the modern park. Passing the city park, it opened up a trail that looks more like a hiking trail before reaching the theater. The theater is well preserved, with smaller capacity and better seating areas, including a front row that has more comfortable chairs and offers the best seating. Seemingly, this theater served as the entertainment center for the higher classes, with its own Hamam. I imagine that the nobles came here to relax and socialize in the Hamam before entering the theater for the show. We searched for the Sebasteionwhich had an eye-catching building with different sculptures. What seems very interesting is that the sculptures on the top tiers are ruling families, while the gods and goddesses sculptures occupy the middle tiers below the top tiers. Does it imply the ruling families believed that they were above the gods and goddesses? Closer to the entrance/exit, there stands the museum with a good collection of Greek sculptures, and artifacts evacuated from the ancient city.
Thermal Pools & the Pamukkale travertines
The gift shops and cafes awaited at the end of the Hierapolis ruins.
Antique pool (Cleopatra pool)
Making it special is the presence of an antique pool, also named Cleopatra pool. Rumored with its healing effect, the pool has been open for the public to swim for a fee. We sat next to the antique pool, enjoying kebabs and salad for lunch. The pool had clear and turquoise water, with natural rocks among them, and it was very inviting to take a dip. Some called the antique pool as the Cleopatra pool with the rumor that the queen had swum in, over two thousand years ago! It was so comfortable and relaxing to soak in it, we walked, swam and rested on the rocks, and appreciated some Roman-style pillars lying randomly in the pool. Before we knew it, we were already in the water for an hour, and our hands became wrinkly. It was an experience you don’t want to miss.
Pammukkale Travertines
Thermal Pools
Walking another 100 meters, it started the famous Pamukkale travertines and thermal pools. The travertines looked like a hardened ski slope. The thermal pools were formed over time when a spring with a high content of dissolved calcium bicarbonate cascaded over the edge of the cliff, which cooled and hardened leaving calcium deposits. They became mini natural pools, shelves and ridges with beautiful pale bluish color, and these pools stacked above each other. We had to walk on foot to avoid further erosion or damage to this Hierapolis-Pamukkale – UNESCO World Heritage Centre. If the thermal water were warm and inviting, the path to it was covered with gravels, slippery travertines, and was prickly to the feet. The north entrance of the pool is at the top. Slowly, we walked the distance of 2km, appreciating the variety of many thermal pools and got to the south exit. Just outside of the south exit is the Pamukkale town center with a single street of restaurants, with a number of eateries all enthusiastic to invite tourists in their restaurants.
Tourists can probably cover the highlights of Pamukkale in a day. We really enjoyed our longer stays to slow down our pace, visited both Hierapolis and Aphrodisias ruins, enjoyed the antique pool, had the prickly “feet-on” experience in walking on the thermal pools, and visited different cafes on that single street .
Spa
It has taken me decades of traveling, to realize that Spa was among the best things to do on the last day of any trip. The only thing that may be better than that would be a combined Turkish bath and spa experience where your party was the only customers.
And we did just that to indulge in the timeless bond of relaxation and rejuvenation with a Turkish bath and spa experience.
It is a memory that every mother-daughter duo would cherish and nothing can take this away.
Cappadocia, renowned for its hot air balloon, is no way to be seen on Google Maps. Cappadocia is the name of the whole region. The region has a number of popular destinations for travelers: Goreme, Uchisar, Çardak, Avanos, Ihlara Valleys. It has a unique jagged landscape. The protruding rock formation rises up like fairy chimneys, or mushrooms, best viewed from the air. Over a thousand of years ago, it was also the region where the Christians found refuge from their persecutions. They built underground cities, cave dwellings, carved out cathedrals among the jagged rock formation. Their hardship, perseverance and benefit deserved my deepest respect. Cappadocia feels like a huge UNESCO world heritage area and has a history of the intersections between the east and the west. Ironically, most travelers come to the region for its world renowned hot air balloons more so than its history.
Cappadocia – the not-to-be-missed cave hotel and the different tours
I appreciate the comforts of a hotel more than dwelling in a cave. However, when I had the opportunity to visit Cappadocia, I couldn’t resist the chance to stay in a cave hotel. Aydinli cave hotel in Goreme, located just an hour’s drive from Kayseri airport, was a great choice. Its convenient location makes it only a few minutes’ walk from the town center, where there is a bustling tourist hub with a variety of shops and restaurants, including options like Chinese and Korean cuisine.
To reach our room at the cave hotel, we had to climb many steps. We were never tired of the breathtaking view of the jagged landscape and other cave dwellings along the way. The area was a bit dusty for our sensitive noses. We took it as a feature of this rugged landscape. The cave room was a spacious and clean environment adorned with beautiful kilims, adding a touch of local culture. The cave hotel ingeniously combined the unique cave structure with modern hotel amenities, with cave walls surrounding us and shower areas without a traditional door.
At around 4:14 am, I was awakened by the sound of the azan, which felt like a fitting religious awakening. It was soothing enough to get us back to our sleep quickly.
Each morning, as we opened our door, we were greeted by the magnificent expanse of the jagged landscape, creating a sense of leaving our caves and embracing the vast openness.
A delightful and delicious Turkish breakfast was served, a level above our room, at the top level of our cave hotel in Cappadocia. The breakfast was a Mediterranean feast for the senses. It offers a wide variety of fruits, vegetables, spices, sauces, butter, jams, and honey, all accompanied by freshly baked crispy buns and invigorating Turkish coffee or tea. We could also order additional omelets, Turkish pancakes and other breakfast items. Kaymak, a mix of cottage cream and honey, was the spread I look forward to every morning; and my daughter’s favorite item was Gozleme (Turkish Pancakes). The best part was that we got to enjoy this scrumptious meal while witnessing the residual spectacle of the hot air balloons dotting the morning sky above the surreal landscape. It was an enchanting sight that added an extra touch of wonder.
If you’re seeking a truly unique experience during your travels to the region, don’t miss out on the chance to stay in a cave hotel and enjoy a Turkish buffet breakfast. It’s an unique experience like nowhere else.
The hotel offered plenty of traveler’s choices. Among the tours, the green tour to the east and south and the red tour to the Goreme open air museum and Avanos pottery town in the north stood out. We decided on the one-day guided green tour, while keeping the flexibility to explore the red-tour locations at our own pace.
One of the ultimate experiences we were eagerly anticipating was the hot air balloon ride. It belonged to the “short list of things to do before you die.” The hotel recommended several balloon companies, and we picked the butterfly balloon company, highly praised by the renowned travel expert Rick Steves. The company’s impeccable safety record and exceptional reviews reassured us, even if it came with a hefty price. We were more than willing to go with the safe bet for this once-in-a-lifetime adventure.
Cappadocia – Guided Green Tour
As the green tour covered more distance, we signed up for the 1-day green tour.
No matter how many times the guide tried to explain the landscape and the history of the volcano eruption, I still found it magical that the lava rock and the natural erosion creates a landscape of chimney-like, mushroom-like and other shapely rock structures. In this unique landscape, the early settlers crafted many pigeon holes on these strangely shaped rock structures for the wild pigeons to live. Why? Pigeons droppings turn out to be great organic fertilizers.
Uchisar Castle, stunning rock formation
Unique landscape like mushroom like fairy chimney
Most tours have shopping stops. The green tour was no exception. In an art and jewelry shop, my daughter got a pair of beautiful Zultanite ear-rings which changed colors with different lightings. I got a Turkish Turquoise-blue cross to be used as a necklace. It made a special gift and served as a tribute to the many Christians sought refuge in the area, spreaded their belief while escaping Roman persecution. There are some who believe the word Turquoise comes from “Turkish and Quad”.
The Cathedral in the Ihara Valley is unlike any other cathedral in the world. It is built among the caves and the rocks. Though primitive, the cave Cathedral has most of the church structure. It is humbling to witness the faith, the hardship and the bravery of the early Christian settlers. A short walk down the river, we were treated with Turkish vegetable soup, fresh salad, delicious beef and vegetarian casserole on hot stones, right next to the muddy and fast flowing river. Together with freshly squeezed watermelon juice and baklava with ice cream, it did its trick to re-energize for the visit to the underground city.
The underground city is unlivable in today’s standard, yet, the Christians may live in the city for days and days to escape the persecution. We could only imagine the lives of the cave dwellers while squeezing through the narrow tunnels and listening to the tourist guy Serpil explain about the livestock, the storage, the living room, the church and the wine/food production. It may not be a stop for those with claustrophobia.
Cappadocia – the self-guided Red Tour
The red tour itinerary has the Goreme open air museum and the town of pottery, Avanos as the main attractions. My daughter speaks good Turkish and we felt confident to explore ourselves at our own pace.
Avanos is a 15-minute taxi ride from Goreme. It is a quiet and secluded village, perfect for a relaxing stroll. The red river and the red soil provides the ingredients for beautiful potteries. There are only a few streets and we strolled at our own pace to check out the rug shops, pottery shops and ice cream booths. It was a nice place to get pottery and ceramic artwork. It would have been a nice place for rugs too, only that rugs shopping needs more time and energy to select and bargain while zipping tea. We walked across a suspension bridge over the red river which is the longest river in Turkey before settling down for our lunch at MADO next to the river. Interestingly enough, no-one at the restaurant seemed to care if we were only resting there, or dining there. When we finally were ready for the food, the English menu had no price tag, only the Turkish menu had the price tag.
The Goreme Open Air Museum is a UNESCO world heritage site, and arguably the most famous place to check out the cave cathedrals. It has a complex of open air churches amazingly carved into volcanic rock during the 10th to 12th centuries & decorated with frescoes. Some churches are more primitive. The more impressive ones include the snake church, the sandal church and the dark church, both with mind-boggled mural paintings with bright colors and beautiful design patterns. Beside the frescoes, the overall landscape outside the churches would make the museum a worthy visit. Don’t miss the visit to the museum, but consider picking a comfortable day as it is an outdoor museum.
Cappadocia – the Hot Air Balloon adventure made a once-in-a-life experience to cherish
Cappadocia is renowned for its rugged landscape and the mesmerizing sight of hundreds of hot air balloons gracefully soaring through the early morning light. The Hot Air Balloon rides in Cappadocia are arguably the biggest attraction for tourism in Turkey. The 3am wake-up call was a relatively small nuance. The butterfly balloon agent gathered a number of balloon riders from different hotels, and we walked quietly in the dark with sleepy eyes. After a short shuttle ride, we were already in the Butterfly Balloons cafeteria with a light breakfast offering fruits, breads and beverages enough to wake us up a bit more. At check-in, we were assigned the pilot to meet at the launching area. Another short ride after breakfast brought us to the launching locations. My impressions of hot air balloons came mostly from posters, from pictures or watching them in clusters from afar. Each of these balloons looked multiple times larger than my impressions. Many balloons, from different balloon companies, were in different stages of readiness to launch. Most balloons had a basket with a handful of compartments, that could fit a total of 10 to 20 people while allowing each one to have their own space. While waiting for ours to get ready, we witnessed a number of launches. They were noisy, they were exciting and they made us eager to get onto ours. Our turn came quickly. We climbed through the footholds in the baskets into our compartment in the basket and we waved to the land crews as we started to take off. The pilot showed his skills as he calmly navigated the balloon up in altitude. The pilot explained that he could only control the rotation and altitude of the balloon but the wind decides its directions. What a lesson to learn for us. The views of the unusual rock formations and its colors from above are magnificent and in our 60 minutes of airtime, we cannot stop feeling magical. The balloons floated past the Rose Valley with rocks in rose color, the Gavusin old towns, Pigeon Valley with plenty of pigeon holes carved into the rocks, and a number of cave churches carved into the volcano rocks. The hundreds of colorful Hot Air Balloons on top of its unique landscape has given us one of the most beautiful and memorable travel experiences. We wanted to stay up for as long as possible.
Landing was another experience. There were no fixed predetermined landing spots. The pilot decided on the safe spot to land based on where the balloon had floated to. We landed in the middle of no-where. The land crew quickly drove their jeeps and trailers to meet us. They set up a nice “celebration” serving champagne and snacks before passing us the “we did it” medals and certificate, together with a €30 worth of usb souvenir containing pictures and videos of the adventure.
For weeks before the hot air balloon adventures, I was a bit uncertain if my acrophobia would flare up in the air. I comforted myself that I was not afraid on flights, I was also not nervous in small seaplanes or planes. I was just afraid when I was on my own feet, walking next to canyons or cliffs. The hot air balloon launch needs permission from the local aviation and the activity takes place in the very early morning when there is hardly any wind in the air. The take off has been way more stable than any plane taking off.
For anyone visiting this region, I highly recommend soaking in the captivating hot air balloon scene—it’s an experience you’ll cherish forever.
Cappadocia – the Camel Ride to experience the Silk Road with modern comfort
Turkey is in a central position connecting Asia and Europe; and many many civilizations over thousands of years. I always feel this is a special place. Back in the days, camels were the means of transportation. How would one feel to be riding on a camel, traversing the trade route of the Silk Road? Cappadocia is on the silk road route. My daughter made plans with Camel Safari for a 90-minute camel ride.
Riding on camels felt different from horse riding in a number of ways. Camels are gentle animals. It strolls most of the time. Its flat feet provide more stable support. The thicker padding in between the humps makes it more comfortable. It gives a more smooth ride than horse riding. The camel we rode was of Arabian origin, also known as dromedaries. We climbed on a stand to get to the camel’s back only to find that there was a handle to hold onto, but not footholds to rest our feet.These Arabian camels are tall animals, and I felt so high up from the ground. I convinced myself that the camel hardly galloped, which was actually not true, nor threw someone off their back. Gradually the steady and stable demeanor of the camel has won us over. Our two camels were hooked up. The tourist guide carried the rein at the beginning until we got into a good safe rhythm.
The camels took us through the red valley. We became relaxed enough to immerse in the stunning views of fairy chimneys in different shades of red, pink and earthy color around us. We could see the Uchisar castle on the horizon. The weather was comfortable, and the sky was in a beautiful blue with some cumulus clouds, keeping the heat in check. Mid-way in the tour, our tour guide took pictures and videos against the backdrop of the fairy chimney “canyon”, and even added silk road music in the background. With more confidence, I was able to have one hand on the handle and took videos on our way back. The €10 drone videos the tour agency made to record our journey with the meditating music made one of the best souvenirs.
If you visit Cappadocia, check out the Camel Safari. It has given us the magical moments to immerse in the stunning landscape and imagine the silk road trade route. We felt like seasoned camel riders ready for a long journey on the Silk Road, and ready to facilitate more global trading.
Top Cappadocia Food and Souvenirs
The breakfast treats go to the Kaymak and the Gozleme. The server at the hotel breakfast made us spread by mixing Kaymak, the cottage cream, and honey. It is the best spread I have had on crispy buns and pancakes. The hot-off-the-stove Turkish Gozleme is the type of pancake to have every morning.
Both the casserole and the clay pot with meat choice of lamb or beef would please the foodie’s palate. If you are not a meat person, they are equally delicious with mushrooms and cheese.
There is also a kind of Turkish dumplings, named Manti. Manti is different from the dumplings in other places. It is a bit like ravioli with unique flavor and sauce.
Turkish teaTurkish coffee
Goreme is the most tourist friendly city center in the region, and they have international cuisines. The Peking restaurant, serving Chinese cuisines, and the Korean restaurant both did not disappoint.
The ice cream, dondurma, is delicious and has a different texture than the typical ice cream in other places. The tricks of the Turkish ice cream man created one of the most memorable ice cream experiences.
The Goreme town center offered a good supply of souvenirs. The more expensive ones include the Jewelry-grade Zultanite that changes colors according to the light. Zultanite earrings are both pretty and noble. I like the distinct blue of the Turquoise stone. There are also the more casual souvenirs including the Aladdin lamp, the mosaic lamp, the magnet, the ceramic, and the pottery. Turkey is also famous for rugs and the flat kilim. They are pretty to look at and can have a wide price range. Hand-made kilim has a unique pattern and often the imperfection makes it more real. I am willing to pay a hefty price if the profits would get back to the hands of the craftsmen or craftswomen, but sadly that is unlikely how the trade works.
Shopping for a rug or kilim could be a tourist stop at a credible rug store, with hours to drink tea, appreciate the beauty and craftsmanship, check out different patterns, and time to bargain. That will make an itinerary for the next trip.