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重聽同舟共濟: 與我關心的港人互勉

『同舟共濟』是許冠傑九零年創作的歌曲,不覺已經近三十年了。

我是聽收音機聽許冠傑歌長大的,可能回憶是有選擇性的,感覺年青時比現在的年輕人開心,社會比較和諧 (social coherence),鄰居是會守望相助的。唱歌唱的是許冠傑的學生歌,錢會繼續嚟 , 搵野做, 應該要自愛, 有酒今朝醉, 快樂,珍惜, 沉默是金等勵志歌曲

 

九零年代地鐵舒緩香港路面交通堵塞, 對於市民日常生活幫助很多, 我也是數百萬受益人之一。地鐵服務很好, 運作效率高。那時侯機場是啟德機場, 機場很小但效率高, 十五分鐘直達市區。這些都是我移民美國後很引以為傲的。那時未有互聯網(internet), 未有iPhone, 未有社交網路如facebook, youtube, whatsapp。

 

移居美國矽谷後, 這二十多年差不多每年也會回港探親。近三個月香港示威,抗議等新聞報導令我記掛香港親友和市民的生活和感受。再聽『同舟共濟』這首歌,多年後,竟然仍反映時事, 仍有勵志作用。

『同舟共濟』開始是我與你同坐這條船, 無情浪把它猛卷, 滿天風雨,視野未能見,亂作一大團,不知怎算』這不正是時下香港的寫照和小市民的感受嗎? 但下兩句 既決意留在這條船, 齊齊令它不遭破損』, 不正是現在最需要的嗎 ? 更需要奮勇地面對,令到這條船,永不翻轉』我移民外國生活很好, 不是做遞菜斟茶』也不覺得做二等公民』, 但是會選擇睇香港電視, 吃中國菜, 講廣東話, 要孩子上中文學校。實在希望香港回復安定, 必須抱著信心, 把基礎打穩, 盡力地做我本份, 定能突破,戰勝黑暗』重建信心,時局定必得好轉, 懷著希冀,再創造時勢,令到這條船,永久溫暖』如果香港可以人人團結  那說不定香港可以成為小康城市的典範 , 再現東方之珠的光芒。但願日後獅子山下, 人人團結, 永不分化』

 

同舟共濟 許冠傑 原版

既決意留在這條船, 齊齊令它不遭破損, 困境挑戰,奮勇地面對,令到這條船,永不翻轉

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我與你同坐這條船, 無情浪把它猛卷
滿天風雨,視野未能見,
亂作一大團,不知怎算

香港是我心, 一顆不變心
實在極不願,移民外國做二等公民

必須抱著信心, 把基礎打穩
盡力地做我本份, 定能突破,戰勝黑暗

破鏡明日定會重圓, 時局定必得好轉, 懷著希冀,再創造時勢,令到這條船,永久溫暖

Hong Kong view香港是我心, 一顆不變心,
實在極不願,移民外國做二等公民

必須抱著信心, 把基礎打穩盡力地做我本份,
定能突破,戰勝黑暗

香港是我心, 一顆不變心
實在極不願,移民外國做二等公民

必須抱著信心, 把基礎打穩
盡力地做我本份, 定能突破,戰勝黑暗

Hong-Kong-Skyline-Big-Bus-Tours-18-01-17香港是我家, 怎捨得失去她
實在極不願,
移民外國做遞菜斟茶

傾出這心裡話, 但願籍著這番話,
齊齊共你發洩一下

但願日後獅子山下,
人人團結,永不分化!

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Wimbledon – The Queue, Center Court and Federer

Watching Wimbledon Championships is the peak of experience for a tennis fan.  Watching Federer playing live at Wimbledon Centre Court is a once-in-a-lifetime experience.  We checked off this bucket item this summer.

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We checked in our Wimbledon airbnb two days before Wimbledon Championships began.  We quickly discovered our airbnb has been the house of Rafael Nadal in the past few years; this year, Rafael Nadal and Nick Kyrgios lived a few houses down the block, right opposite to each other.   

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Among the four tennis grand slams, Wimbledon is the tournament with the Queue for the die-hard tennis fans to queue up to get tickets.   For the other three grand slams, we can get tickets online with pricey but reasonable price tags.    For Wimbledon, the Queue is pretty much the only option for international travellers like us.

Our airbnb host kindly lent us high quality camping gears so we could tent at Wimbledon park overnight.  And we were lucky to know the weather was warm and sunny for the fortnight.

June 29
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Even before the official Queue started, there were a hundred or so people setting up tents in the Wimbledon Park.   We chatted with a few die-hard fans who were super friendly, knowledgeable and excited to share their experiences over the years.  They were excited to see us when they ran into us in the Queue a few days after. From their intelligence, we decided to get into the Queue as early as possible.  

June 30
1pm, we got in the queue, two days before the Tuesday when Roger Federer was scheduled to play his first match.   We were in good company of many fanatic fans, from all over the world.  The queuing time was kind of bonding time with people from all over the world, and it was fun talking to folks from South Africa, Hungary, China and of course the locals.

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3:45pm, we put up our tent in the park. We became neighbours to the same folks for the next two days and had a lot of social times.    

img_20190630_164311-e1564288504921.jpg4:30pm, we got our Queue card and its number 805 was our priority in the Queue.  For any day, the first 500 got tickets for the match of their choices; the next 1000 got tickets to one of the three show courts.  To get the insurance to watch Roger Federer, we had to be in the first 500. In the park, there were people playing racket balls, there were food stalls, and accessible toilets.  It was pleasant and lively. The Queue was very well organised, and there were honorary Wimbledon stewards walking around, ready to answer our questions. We were not supposed to be away from the tent for more than 30 minutes, though the rules were not strictly enforced and we could still take some breaks here and there.   

5:45pm, we had take-out dinner and the evening was cool and comfortable.

8pm, we were tired, and went to bed early.  

July 1
4:15am, we were awakened around dawn, as many campers started making moves.

5:45am, we were all packed up, waiting to make a move.   The stewards separated the campers into two groups, with the first group for the matches of the day, and the second group for the matches of the day after.  We belonged to the latter group.   

img_20190701_145911-e1564288628715.jpg7am, we moved our tents to a waiting area. 

9am, we settled in a new position.

12pm,  we got a new Queue card, with a new number 247.   We were elated as that guaranteed us to see the match of our choice.  The remaining day went by pretty quickly as we socialised with our neighbours, mostly fans of Roger Federer; and took short breaks to take shower and to get take-out.   

It was another warm, sunny and beautiful day in the park.    The evening-cool was again welcome, and we slept early.   

8pm,  just when we were dozing off, the Wimbledon steward checked each tent again to make sure all was inhabited with real tennis fans.

July 2, Centre Court
6am, we were awake and  start putting down the tent.  We checked in our camping gear in a nearby storage facilities set up for us, got breakfast from the food stalls. 

We were then split into groups for the different types of tickets, and each was given a wristband. The wristband remained the evidence of the Queue experience.   From the park to the ticket turnstile, it was about a mile and everyone was super-excited in this final mile. We got some tips from the more experienced that sections 101 to 103  would be among the best seating in the Centre Court.  IMG_20190705_125726

10:30am, grounds open and tickets at hand for section 103, 2nd row.   We entered the Wimbledon grounds, and we were overjoyed that a dream has come true.  The Wimbledon store is right after the entrance, and we bought a few items quickly.   The grounds were so very beautiful and immaculately groomed. We tried the famous strawberry and cream. The Wimbledon stewards were polite, happy, patient with our questions and they did such a good job to make us feel welcome. Time flew by pretty quickly as we wandered to watch players practice, watch matches on the outside courts or just pinched ourselves to believe that we finally made it. 


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img_20190727_212916-e1564289035396.jpg1pm, we were at our seat, ready for the order of play:

  1. Kerber vs T. Maria
  2. Federer vs L. Harris
  3. Williams vs G. Gatto-Monticone

In the first match, Kerber won easy and quick.   The Federer match followed quickly. Federer received a super-warm welcome as he came on the court.   Most spectators were Federer’s fans. Before the first ball was played, I felt immensely how huge the expectations must be that Federer carried on his shoulder, and how his presence then victory brought happiness to the many fans in the Center Court and around the world.   Surprisingly, he lost the first set to the little known South African L. Harris, the collective sentiment in the stadium was hard to describe in words, but it felt like “how dare you to win a set against Federer?”. Federer won in 3 sets to 1.  The live experience was so much more magical than the watching-at-home experience.   

IMG_20190702_124402If Federer is lean and fit, Serena looks bulky but very intimidating on the court.  She looked super strong and looked heavier than Federer. The first set was no match, but the qualifier put up a fight in the second set.  Serena won in straight sets.  

The Centre Court experience was deeply satisfying.   

We strolled up to Aorangi Terrace, commonly known as Henman Hill was crowded with spectators who did not get the show court tickets.  It was beautiful with a gorgeous view of the Centre Court, the Big TV, and Court No. 1.  

The Wimbledon museum closes at 7:30pm and we missed the opening hours just by a few minutes.    I was determined to come back to the grounds and the museum another day.

My first day in Wimbledon grounds has been a once-in-a-lifetime experience and I wanted more of it.  

July 3
After the Centre court experience, I spent the day after to explore the Wimbledon Village and the Wimbledon downtown, had lunch at the Dog & Fox pub. 

We had a nice dinner at the SticksNSushi in Wimbledon where we saw Nick Kyrgios who was scheduled to have a big match against Rafael Nadal the next day. 

July 4


We went to Hyde Park in the morning.  

2pm, I was back to airbnb to watch some tennis matches online.

5pm, I went back to the Wimbledon Queue in the park.  

7:30pm, the stewards informed us the ground was full and they would soon close the park.  I was devastated. I ended up watching some matches from the big TV outside of Morrisons while my husband went to watch Tina Turner in London.

July 5
After the disappointment the day before, I learned that there were no short cut around the Queue and the better strategy was to honestly wait.   My husband went to Bath, while I went back to the Queue.  

9:30am, on my way back to the Queue, I ran into the whole Federer family – Mirka, Federer’s parents, and his kids (I saw both daughters, but I was so happy to see Mirka and could not remember if I saw both boys or just one of the two).   What struck me was how normal and how typical they are as a family, it was really good for their kids to live this way even their father is such a celebrity and is admired by tens of millions around the world. They seemed to be on the way playing some racket balls, and they were holding some sort of rackets, not tennis rackets though.  I said “hello”; both his mom and Mirka responded with a “hello” back.   

2pm, The Wimbledon museum deserves a visit.   The virtual reality movie provided memorable first hand experience of Wimbledon 2016.  The trophy looks magnificent.  

3:30pm, I was joined by an acquaintance from the Queue, to watch a few hours of tennis at the Henman Hill. We got in Court 12 to watch the mixed doubles of V. Williams and F. Tiafoe, it was a short match and we went back to Henman Hill.   When the 15-year old Coco won the match, the whole Henman Hill gave one of the loudest roars, as if we all won the biggest prize of our collective lives.  It was simply unbelievable how all of us love Cinderella storyline.

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8:00pm, sunset was beautiful in Wimbledon. 

July 6 and beyond
My dream has come true this week in Wimbledon.  I am still elated with the memory watching Federer at Wimbledon Centre Court.  The Queue and the Centre Court are once-in-life-time experiences. Any tennis fans should go for it, at least once.  

I was gutted that Federer missed two championship points.  It would have been the best fairy tale if he had won the 2019 trophy.  Life is never perfect,  nothing could take away the cosy Queue experience, the magical Federer experience, his hard-earned win over Nadal, and . . .

Also check out this blog for more of this 2019 trip.

 

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June: Amsterdam & some Belgium Cities

Watching Federer live at Wimbledon Center Court is a once-in-a-lifetime experience for a tennis fan.    I hit this bucket list item this July and still feel elated by the experience.

Our family of four arrived in Europe, on different flights from three US cities, a week before the Wimbledon tournament.   We thoughtfully selected a few “easy” European cities near London to spare the week. 

As empty-nesters, my husband and I are always happy that our children join us in our trip.   The four of us visited the progressive Amsterdam as well as the beautiful Belgium cities of Ghent, Brussels and Bruges.  

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In Amsterdam, we visited the historic Ann Frank house on the first day.  It is hard to not be wretched by what had happened to the family and the millions Jews during World World II.   Have we treated similar racial persecution in the modern world with indifference? The museum is very well organized and there has been visible effort to keep the house intact for all these years.  As if a way to lighten up our heart, there are tons of canal cruises just right outside of the museum. We did the canal cruise, tulip museum, cheese museum after before briefly strolled in the red light district. 

 

On the second day in Amsterdam, each of us went different routes – my daughter went to the arts museum, my son rented a bike to get out of the city while their parents thoroughly enjoyed the tourist-favorite Van Gogh Museum – four people three itineraries on the same day.   Is this the new definition of family travelling together?  

 

On the third day, we took the Thalys train from Amsterdam to Ghent in Belgium.  Going between countries in Europe is as simple as going between cities in the Bay Area.

Our airbnb in Ghent is a 15-minutes walk from the train station.  It fit perfectly the description of a (better) home away from home.  It is spacious, comfortable and beautiful, and we had the whole 3-story home with a fully equipped kitchen.  The thoughtful host provided all kinds of tips from restaurant to bakeries to groceries. She lives right across the street, and we could not ask for a more accessible host.  In the three days there, every morning I walked that few minutes to get freshly baked croissants and pastries, while watching the locals bike to school or work. I could almost reminisce what life could be like in the quiet town in the medieval times.  A good breakfast gave us the perfect fuel for our day-trips with Ghent as our base.   

 

We spent the next day in Brussels.  Brussels is among the most beautiful European cities and a city of significance for the EU establishment..  The Garden of Mont Des Arts is spectacular and the Grand Place is impressive with so many eye-catching architecture buildings. I would have loved to just sit  in a cafe at the Grand Place to appreciate the city but there are so many other cities worth visiting.    

 

Next day, we took the train to Bruges, a medieval town that is every single bit worth visiting.  We went up the 300+ staircase to the top of the Belfry Tower and truly appreciated the engineering work of the clock tower which informed the medieval inhabitants the time of the day and synchronized their schedule.   Afterwards, we enjoyed a nice lunch at the fairy tale like Market Square, then visited Basilica of the Holy Blood.  There could be so many photo-stops in Bruges, but I would remember very favorably the hour my children and I sipped hot chocolate together at the Old Chocolate House.

 

I enjoyed Amsterdam and Belgium cities, and would like to spend more time in these two countries.   My husband and I are ready to move on to Wimbledon.

Also my own blog for the once-in-a-lifetime Wimbledon experience, and this blog for more of this 2019 trip.

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May: College Graduation

My family of four resides in three cities across the country.   My daughter’s commencement brought us together, in Ann Arbor, in the first weekend of May.    I am so proud, in little less than four years of college, far away from California, my daughter graduated with an Art & Design major, and CS/Film Production minor.   We invited our nanny and her husband to join us. The older gang of four arrived, on Thursday evening, to get ourselves to the best possible shape for the commencement on Saturday.   My son took a red-eye flight on Friday evening, arrived in the early Saturday morning, with about an hour of sleep before the event.

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Four months before
Most hotels, in Ann Arbor, were already sold out.  What could I do other than picking a better one among the remaining outrageous rates?  [ We were lucky to switch back to Marriott residence inn with more reasonable rates last minute ].

graduation forever bearTwo months before
My husband and I had this idea of printing out a large photo, just like what fans would do when they went to a concert.  Parents are the biggest fans of their children, aren’t we? We thoughtfully selected her childhood photos so as not to embarrass her.  My husband spent days to do the photoshop work. We were happy with a large collage banner.

One month before
One month before, we placed an order of graduation Forever friends bear from UK.  Finally, we purchased from Amazon the book “Adulting”.  And we are ready.

Day 1 (Thursday) : Arrival

We picked up a 7-person vehicle rental and had a late dinner with our daughter.  The Evergreen restaurant in Ann Arbor surprised us with a pretty authentic Chinese cuisine.

Day 2 (Friday) : Campus Tour
We woke up just in time to catch the final fifteen minutes of the free breakfast, then took a dip at the hotel’s swimming pool and the jacuzzi to be fully awake.   For lunch, the Songbird cafe restaurant served delicious sandwiches, soups and dessert.   On a overcast day, it was quite relaxing to walk around the college campus, take random pictures of its buildings, capture its 200-years of history and its prestige.   Ann Arbor is a nice college town with variety of cuisines, its tranquility and peacefulness set the stage for focused study.

Day 3 (Saturday) : Commencement Day
IMG_20190504_084639Ann Arbor traffic is substantially better than a normal day in the Bay Area.   The only real traffic jam came only on the Saturday morning, in the shuttle ride to the Michigan Stadium, as thousands of parents flocked to attend the commencement ceremony.   The stadium, with a capacity of 100,000 spectators, was more than half filled with enthused parents. It was fortunately a cool and dry morning as umbrellas, purses, and bags were not allowed.  The ceremony was nicely done with short speeches from the school president Mr. Schlissel, the governor Ms. Whitmer, a few scholars and a few students, covering a diverse set of themes. With thousands graduating, the school-wide ceremony spared parents the few hours of waiting for each student to come up to the podium.  Instead, the graduation was made official by the faculty dean to present the students to the school president. We took some quick pictures afterwards. In the sea of people flocking out of the stadium, most pictures ended up with some fellow students or their families in the background.

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It was quite rushed to get to the afternoon ceremony organized by the faculty. The Art  & Design ceremony was set in the garden quad within the faculty building. With fewer attendees, it gave a more cosy feel. The parents did not really know each other, yet the students showed more engagement and enthusiasm. Each graduate had a chance to say a few words on the podium. While the ceremony took more than two hours, it was memorable to hear from the students, and especially my own child.   We took more pictures among the many other families. My daughter enthusiastically showed us around, and more pictures taken at the “studio” she has set up for her final year project. We were exhausted and exhilarated as we relaxed with our McDonald take-out in our hotel rooms. We enjoyed our graduation dinner at a German restaurant with beer, cocktail and lots of meat to conclude the eventful day.

Lake Erie

Day 4 (Sunday) : Great Lake & Chill Out
A relative short drive to Lake Erie gave us a view of the Great Lake on an overcast day.  At the pier, a few folks were fishing, and a few were taking a stroll. The water was green, deep and muddy.   It was peaceful, but the Great Lake looked overlarge, and lacked human touch. We were used to the hustle rustle San Francisco Pier 39 in front of the Pacific Ocean, and this could not be more different.    The nearby Gander’s Family Restaurant surely treated us with hospitality and a delicious family lunch, with delicious chicken lemon rice soup, the grilled liver, the fried Lake Erie yellow perch, the grilled Lake Erie Walleye.   In the afternoon, nothing brought more relaxation than chilling out in the hotel room, doing “nothing” before we dropped our son on his flight back to LA.

Day 5 (Monday) :  More pictures
Monday, most families have left town.  Finally, we were able to calmly take as many pictures as we like at the different college landmarks. 

And we want to catch and savor these life moments. 

 

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March: Indian Wells Tennis

 

Indian Wells, next to Palm Springs,  is about 2 hours drive from Los Angeles.   Situated in the desert, this beautiful city is surrounded by layers of hills, and is a popular retirement destination as well as a winter snowbird destination.  The area strikes a perfect balance of quietness and convenience; for the diners, there are many international choices. It feels like a perfect location for sanctuaries and has been a popular resort for hollywood stars.  Four out of the last five years, we went to watch Indian Wells Tennis Master in March. This year, it was all the more special as we made a detour to UCLA to dine with our son.

Since Larry Ellison became the owner of the tennis tournament, he threw a few hundreds millions to make continuous improvements to the tennis gardens, bring in nice chef, renovate the gardens, improve the fans’ experience and raise the prize money for the players.  As an example of improving fans’ experience, he bought the piece of land next to the tennis stadium, and turned it into a huge grass-surface parking lots. We paid $25 for the parking for a day and took a short walk to the tennis garden.

The tournament has grown in the past few years.  This year, we had a hard time to get the tickets for the final, and ended up paying $500 per ticket.  We were somewhat lucky to be treated with two great finals, both went the distance of three setters. Seated so much closer to the tennis court, we felt the pace and the power.    While disappointed that Federer lost to Thiem in a tight final, it was not meant to be , and it was hard to dislike Thiem.

On the day before, we thought we were luckier to hold that $70 semi-final ticket, to witness the 39th match between Nadal and Federer.  The ticket could be easily resold at five times of the original price tag on the tournament website.  Much to our disappointment, Nadal withdrew hours before the match.  He should have come play a few games, and it would have made it so memorable for the 14,000 tennis fans in the stadium.  The tournament organizer did a great job to put together a last minute double substitute with Djokovic/Sampras against McEnroe/Haas.

Indian Wells Resort maybe the hotel of choice for the tournament.  I saw Haas, the tournament director, at the hotel lobby. And had a brief eye contact with Thiem, the subsequent champion, at the hotel entrance as he got ready to the stadium in the morning of the final.

After Indian Wells, this may be the year to make the ultimate tennis pilgrimage to Wimbledon.

 

Investing in REITs
By Ralph L Block

Many middle class look into rental property as they journey beyond mid-life.  Few talk about the nuts-and-bolts of tenant management, property management, its opportunity cost and its relative return on investment.   Different from buying a few shares of stock, a rental property is a larger and often illiquid investment with longer term impact. There is some risk and a bad tenant makes a bad day for you.  

REIT (Real Estate Investment Trust) is the closest liquid investment that is accessible and achieves similar investment diversification as buying a rental property without the nuts-and-bolts, and also without the same pride of home ownership.     

In its fourth edition,  this well-written, well-organized REIT book is perfect for new investors; and is a good refreshing course for seasoned ones.   Last revised in 2010, it gives an overview, the REIT categories, the investment principles, the how-to set up REIT portfolio, without getting into tons of charts nor complex math.

This book provides solid fundamentals towards investing in REIT which could be an alternative to owning rental property.

 

The Miracle of Mindfulness
by Thich Nhat Hanh

In this small book, Thich Nhat Hanh uses gentle stories and simple exercises on how to be more mindful and be conscious of the moment.  It starts with some simple breathing exercise, some simple tips to focus on the moment, and progresses through the deeper buddhist meditation experience.

I find the simple medication to be calming and am convinced that a daily meditation can sharpen the mind and the concentration in the daily hustle-rustle.

 

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February: Health

February is a short month with two festivals : Chinese New Year and Valentine’s Day.

Chinese New Year Eve, we had a lot of dishes for the two of us with leftover enough for the remaining week.  New Year Day, we drove to ChinaTown and served ourselves vegetarian dish. This tradition is hard to keep up in America, but we tried as much as possible.   Near Valentine’s day, we did a date-night cooking class with a 3-course meal and a creme brulee dessert.

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Many days in this month I suffered from stomach bloating.  My gastroenterologist suggests the low-fodmap diet (FODMAP = Fermentable Oligo-Di-Monosaccharides and Polyols).  In simple terms, this diet contains a long list of common foods suitable, such as rice, banana, lactose-free milk products, a variety of vegetables and fruit), and also a long list of common foods that need to be eliminated.

Over the years, my stomach complains once in a while.  There was a period when I was a teenager that my mom cooked “bird-nest” congee which was considered very good for stomach. Believe it or not, it was cured and did not come back for years.  This stomach issue came back a few years ago, and was cured after some months of controlled diet. When I shared my health issue, the most frequent reactions from others have been “are you stressed?”  In my experience, the causation effect between stomach issue and stress has not been as obvious, though the health issue creates stress when the bloating pain can come anytime and is sometimes limiting the day-to-day activities.

My theory is that when the stomach is at a sick state, even if it is the same food that uses to cause no problem, the stomach  would randomly complain about. I have this personal challenge to put the stomach back to a healthy state, so that it is not as sensitive to what gets in it.    Coincidentally, I read the “miracle of mindfulness” for inspiration of mindfulness, just in case some relaxation can help along the way.

The laws of medicine

The Laws of Medicine: Field Notes from an Uncertain Science
by Siddhartha Mukherjee

I read this after the award winning book “The Emperor of Maladies” by the same author.  A small book, written years earlier, when Siddhartha was a young, exhausted and isolated medical resident.   In this book, he identified the three key principles that govern medicines.

  • A strong intuition is much more powerful than a weak test.
  • Outliers teach us laws
  • For every perfect medical experiment, there is a perfect human bias.

I am not giving the book away.  Siddhartha has the talent of telling stories and explaining principles that makes his book memorable.  This book is a must read, whether you are in the medical field or not.

Sometimes BrilliantSometimes Brilliant by Larry Brilliant

Larry has been selected as one of TIME magazine’s 100 Most Influential People.   He was the  inaugural Executive Director of Google.org,[1] the charitable arm of Google established in 2005.  He became a co-founder and chairman of Seva Foundation, an international, non-profit, health foundation which has given back sight to more than 3 million blind people through surgery.

Decades ago, he went to India as a spiritual seeker.  His guru Maharaji called him “Doctor America” by his Maharaji, urged him to join WHO and prophesied the eradication of smallpox.   With an unwavering belief in the prophecy, Larry started this impossible adventure, which took him to WHO.   In this book, he chronicled how the team overcame the relentless social/political/business challenges to finally eradicate smallpox.   It is not only a victory of medicine but also the discovery of himself along the journey.

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January: Happy New Year

First week of the month, my daughter and I went to watch a beautiful lights show by the artist Bruce Monro. 

As the children went back to college, my spouse and I slid back to empty nester.  Australian Open came and gone, the miraculous 2017 and the slightly less but still spectacular 2018 did not repeat.  Towards the end of the month, we set up a raised garden bed which has been a gift sitting in the garage for years.  We planted the lovely herbs Rosemary, Thyme, Parsley, Cilantro, some Kale and some pepper seeds. The money spent on the garden soil, seeds and the plants could easily afford us a month or two of expenses in vegetables, not to mention the labor, the water and later the fertilizers.   This again reminds how little farmers earn, and yet play such an important a role in our society.

I finished reading two non-fictions.  The first book, written by ex-GM of Google China, covers and analyzes Artificial Intelligence (AI), a topic that everyone is curious about.  The other book, written by a physician and claimed the Pulitzer prize, covers a topic that people rather whisper about.

 

AI Superpowers: China, Silicon Valley, and the New World Order
by Kai-Fu Lee

The book has both the Chinese and English version.  I read the Chinese version.

Many of us are curious about “who would win the AI race?”, “how would AI affect the world?”, “how many jobs would be eliminated?”, and even further, “is human, as a species, going to become extinct?”  This book provides a comprehensive coverage of AI technology impact to the world, to the superpowers, and to each of us.

Once the GM of Google China, he decomposes the four success factors for AI: Data, Entrepreneur, Talents/Technicians, and Government; and provides a structural comparison how the two superpowers, China and United States, would compete with each other.   On a broader scheme of things, it provides a thought provoking analysis how AI would affect the society and its wealth distribution; and ends with a hypothesis how AI can play a role to enrich human life.

From his near death encounter with a deadly illness, the author reckons human future lies in our spirit of humanity and most importantly, our ability to love.

The Emperor of all maladies : A biography of cancer
by Siddhartha Mukherjee

How would a book on such a dire illness, win the Pulitzer Award?

The book is among the most engaging,  educational, and absorbing read of all the books I have read.   I can’t help but admiring how the author weaves narratives of the scary radical surgery, the poisonous chemo trials, the difficult battles against the tobacco industry and the serendipitous “invention” of mammogram and pap smear.

Far from brutally fearsome, this eloquent chronicle of cancer is full of humane spirit and surprisingly heartwarming, with its first documented appearances thousands of years ago, through the decades of battles to prevent and cure, to the latest gene mutation research of the illness.

Through the experience of Carla, a patient who survived, we cannot but realize the potential immortality of cancer with its prowess originated from the exact human capacity to grow, adapt spread and thrive.   It leaves us the question not if we will encounter cancer in our lives but when.

It ends with the author’s final meeting with another cancer patient, Germaine, who spent six years fighting, and finally found herself stare into an empty vault of resourcefulness and resilience.  Such is the chilly reality for the four-thousand-year-old war against the disease.

Rather than a defeatist, it leaves us with a profound insight into, and a deeper connection to the millions who has or will have an encounter with this emperor of all maladies – cancer.

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December: Family Time

Holiday season sends us the gift of family and friends getting together.    These gatherings create happy, busy and memorable moments that wrap up a very dynamic year.

December 2018

Traveling has become so common these days.  In the 2nd week of December, our family of four spanned across four places, three time zones and two big countries.   My husband and I had joy in visiting our siblings in Hong Kong. Siblings are gifts of our parents, and happy times with them are our gratitude to our parents.  We also spent some time in Shenzhen. We literally walked from Hong Kong to Shenzhen, but the differences are apparent. At Shenzhen, we were amazed at the ubiquitous adoption of technology and presence of delivery folks everywhere.   In the third week of December, our family of four is back to one place, one time zone and one country, as the children came home from college for three weeks.

How would you like to spend family time together?  Regardless, memory is most often made when we try something new and maybe even silly.  Such as trying new restaurant, waiting in line for over an hour to get a a take-out burger meal, or that my daughter patiently taking out my white hair one at a time.  I enjoy doing normal healthy things together such as hiking, reading, going to gym, going to bookstores.

We had meals together, drank some red wine together, and enjoyed small chat around the dinner tables.  The children had their own space too, often they spent time in their rooms, with their electronic gadgets, and they spent most of the mornings sleeping.   For many years, I have tried, in vain, to get the family to play board games together; but it is just hard to counter the abundance of individualized entertainment.  Call it YouTube or NetFlix effect, sometimes, it is not easy to watch the same family movie together on the same TV.   And call it Internet influence, their world has expanded beyond the physical world and the world of books.  I felt like Don Quixote fighting the windmills in my attempt to reduce the influence of the Internet, YouTube, NetFlix and the like.   At the same time, these technology has powered the young ones to be smarter, learn faster, work more productively, and have a more global world view.  I am still surprised on the progress made in the last few decades, and grateful that the platform is there for the young ones to do even more magical stuff in the upcoming few decades.

Taste of Life by Ms. Lisa Fong
方太的滋味人生

方太的滋味人生This is a book filled with words of wisdom from Ms.Fong (方太) and it inspires.  Everyone in Hong Kong knows 方太. She has been appearing on TV shows to teach cooking in the seventies or eighties.  She became an icon and has been the first generation of housewives sharing recipes and cooking tips with millions of other housewives.   

方太 is now in her eighties, and is a happy old woman who continues to learn and grow.  Her writings reflect so much energy, and so much love for her life, her family and friends.   If you are looking for recipes, you would not be disappointed, but more so, I enjoyed what she wrote about important ones in her life – her parents, her children, her grandchild , her maids, her co-workers. I truly admired 方太 and her positive frame of mind towards life.   I love how she thinks of life as the ticket to a theme park, and that since you are there, it is far better to enjoy the journey. How positive! And that she thinks of death as the gradual loss of our fitness and gradual relaxation towards unconsciousness. How wise!

Her success across multiple generations is her own making and no coincidence.   

 

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November: Thanks-and-Giving

This month, the sky has been grey in California and the air quality has been bad to the point that some days schools were closed and we were advised to work from home.  Some study claims that the air quality, as a result of Camp Fire, is equivalent to smoking 11 cigarettes.  If it is this bad hundreds of miles away from the fire, it is hard not to feel for those families who got displaced.  Rain comes later in the month, and brings some relief.

In the spirit of Thanksgiving, I volunteered in the CityTeam activities to help families to pick up bags of groceries, Turkey or Chickens for the upcoming days.   After three hours of lifting bags after bags, my arms and shoulder were sore, at the same time, it was rewarding to think about thousands of families having the ingredients for big meals over the holiday season.  My husband spared a day to learn how to fix bikes and help to fix bikes. Learning a skill takes effort, after a day, he fixed half of a bike. This Thanksgiving is special as my son is coming home for the holiday from his freshman year in college.

I read another book on running this month.  Many past years I had that new year wish to be able to run a mile, and failed.   A few of my acquaintances amazed me when they completed marathon run. I am still not much of a runner, I just keep trying and at one point in time, the body starts to respond better.  I can manage 2 to 3 miles of slow jogging on the treadmill two three times a week; and 5K is something I feel comfortable with. There were a few “breakthrough” moments. A few years ago, I was in a company which assigned  me a “health coach”, and the health coach got me install “C25K’ (Couch to 5K”) app on my phone, that was like giving me a tool or training plan, with a personal coach encouraging you along the way. With some success, I talked my family to do a 5K together on a New Year Day,  Needless to say, I was the one who needed to prepare for it months before; and was the slowest to complete the run, yet it was such a great memory. I could not pinpoint a specific moment when I started to feel very refreshed after each jog. Jogging becomes my path of a good cardiovascular exercise and a good day ahead.   I am still not much of a runner, but I am further along than before.

Many Lives, Many Masters, 20th anniversary edition
By Brian L. Weiss

Many Lives Many MastersThis book was recommended by a panelist in a career conference that I recently attended.   The panelist looks super contented as a person, and seems to know exactly what her purpose of life is.  Who would not admire having a North Star in a life journey?

This book is an account of  the patient-psychiatrist interactions in which the patient, in her hypnotised state, reminisce her many lives over the last thousands of years, and different lessons from masters as she transitions from death to another life.  Among the unbelievables, the patient was also able to recognize people in her current lives in her past lives. It is a book about reincarnation and a book on equal possibility in the pursuit of the final destiny.

We  are often skeptical and fearful towards things that do not comply with the framework of a rational mind.   Cited as the true story of a prominent psychiatrist, it still reads like a novel.

The book gives a lot to think about – if death does not do people apart, and is not the end, but a transition, what would we do differently in how we approach our daily life?

 

Run Forever: Your Complete Guide to Healthy Lifetime Running
By Amby Burfoot

Run foreverMy third book on running, after “What I talk about when I talk about running”  and “Born to Run”. Unlike the other two, this one is more a “how to” book from a Boston Marathon Champion.

It contains many practical tips for all level of runners, helping people to get started, good tips on diet, and work itself towards the more advanced training, and the adjustment required for our running as we age.    It is a complete guide to healthy lifetime running for all ages.

It is an enjoyable and good read for everyone whether he or she is a runner or not.   It is not just about running, but about how to live a good life both mentally and physically for as many years as possible.   

 

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October: Maui

Many use paper planner or e-calendar to manage their daily schedule.    These planners or calendars show every day with the same height and width.   For the past few years, January feels longer than December; even the short month of February seems longer than November.   A year feels more like a downhill slope, as the year progresses, it progresses faster. Such is my sentiment as I realize it is already November and people start talking about year-end already.  As we mature, we think of time differently.

We think of many things differently over the years.  Recently, I watched the live concert of Richard Clayderman.  I love his “Ballade pour adeline” which has been the opening theme of a few of my favorite radio programs in my childhood.   I relish the opportunity to watch him live and fulfill one of the bucket lists. But seeing him,  as an old man with skills far from his peak, cracks my childhood memory of his perfect image of a handsome, quiet and talented pianist.

Some empty nesters ditch their home to travel around the world.  We are not there yet, instead, we spent a few days in Maui. The resort gave the two of us a two-suite bedroom with a full kitchen, a bathtub, a shower, and a freestanding tub.  Our initial reaction was to call our friends and our children; that of course did not happen. We had a great time in beach hopping, in snorkelling, in shopping and in meals.

The sunrise at Haleakala summit was otherworldly beautiful.   We were there an hour before sunrise, when the sky was dark and full of stars. It was cold; and was much colder with the windchill. The crater and an ocean of clouds stood between us and the horizon. We could not quite make them out as it was so dark.  On the horizon, there was that strange combination of greenish, reddish, orange and yellow color, not dissimilar to Aurora. At that moment of sunrise, it was surreal and it was beautiful as the native started singing Hawaiian songs, then we gradually saw the crater and the cloud in between us and the sunrise.

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Gandhi
An Autobiography: The story of my experiments with Truth

I found this book in a used book sale.  Autobiography is not among my favorite genre.   Gandhi was on the headline often in my childhood, I don’tquite remember the headlines, but it was quite miraculous how he led India to be independent from the then British Empire without a bloody battle.

Many remember his Satyagraha (active nonviolent resistance) .   This autobiography does not cover much his political journey. He recounts his younger days, his family, his early marriage, his relationship with his wife, his study in London, his experiment with his diet,  his experience with different religions, his experience in South Africa fighting against discrimination and fighting for the indentured Indians.

Albert Einstein said of Mahatma Gandhi “Generations to come will scarce believe that such a one as this ever in flesh and blood walked up on this earth”.  How true!

In as much as I admire his achievement, I am even more inspired by his persistence to the goodness, his experiment with truth,  his respect and love of all the people around him, his uncompromised level of ethics and integrity as he fought for the justice of the poor,

It has been such a treat to read a few pages every night, and see the world in his eyes.  It is absolutely humbling and inspiring.

Had he worn a different body?
By Brad Ashmore

I am so happy that my ex-worker published his first book.   He used to live within walking distance and we ran into each other in the neighborhood, including one time we ran into each other at Stanford Shopping Mall busy shopping on Christmas Eve.  He retired early and we met up one time, he had a lot of ideas and projects.

His first book made up of  21 tales, each of healthy themes.  He wrote with creativity and originality; and the tale often has unexpected endings.  I enjoyed reading each story.

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