Holiday season sends us the gift of family and friends getting together. These gatherings create happy, busy and memorable moments that wrap up a very dynamic year.
Traveling has become so common these days. In the 2nd week of December, our family of four spanned across four places, three time zones and two big countries. My husband and I had joy in visiting our siblings in Hong Kong. Siblings are gifts of our parents, and happy times with them are our gratitude to our parents. We also spent some time in Shenzhen. We literally walked from Hong Kong to Shenzhen, but the differences are apparent. At Shenzhen, we were amazed at the ubiquitous adoption of technology and presence of delivery folks everywhere. In the third week of December, our family of four is back to one place, one time zone and one country, as the children came home from college for three weeks.
How would you like to spend family time together? Regardless, memory is most often made when we try something new and maybe even silly. Such as trying new restaurant, waiting in line for over an hour to get a a take-out burger meal, or that my daughter patiently taking out my white hair one at a time. I enjoy doing normal healthy things together such as hiking, reading, going to gym, going to bookstores.
We had meals together, drank some red wine together, and enjoyed small chat around the dinner tables. The children had their own space too, often they spent time in their rooms, with their electronic gadgets, and they spent most of the mornings sleeping. For many years, I have tried, in vain, to get the family to play board games together; but it is just hard to counter the abundance of individualized entertainment. Call it YouTube or NetFlix effect, sometimes, it is not easy to watch the same family movie together on the same TV. And call it Internet influence, their world has expanded beyond the physical world and the world of books. I felt like Don Quixote fighting the windmills in my attempt to reduce the influence of the Internet, YouTube, NetFlix and the like. At the same time, these technology has powered the young ones to be smarter, learn faster, work more productively, and have a more global world view. I am still surprised on the progress made in the last few decades, and grateful that the platform is there for the young ones to do even more magical stuff in the upcoming few decades.
Taste of Life by Ms. Lisa Fong
方太的滋味人生
This is a book filled with words of wisdom from Ms.Fong (方太) and it inspires. Everyone in Hong Kong knows 方太. She has been appearing on TV shows to teach cooking in the seventies or eighties. She became an icon and has been the first generation of housewives sharing recipes and cooking tips with millions of other housewives.
方太 is now in her eighties, and is a happy old woman who continues to learn and grow. Her writings reflect so much energy, and so much love for her life, her family and friends. If you are looking for recipes, you would not be disappointed, but more so, I enjoyed what she wrote about important ones in her life – her parents, her children, her grandchild , her maids, her co-workers. I truly admired 方太 and her positive frame of mind towards life. I love how she thinks of life as the ticket to a theme park, and that since you are there, it is far better to enjoy the journey. How positive! And that she thinks of death as the gradual loss of our fitness and gradual relaxation towards unconsciousness. How wise!
Her success across multiple generations is her own making and no coincidence.
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