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‘I Am Malala’ by Malala Yousafzai – her fight for education

It is not everyday scene to see an 18-year old teenager getting a standing ovation in a late night show.  She is the youngest-ever Nobel peace prize laureate.

‘I i am malalaam Malala” covers her fifteen years of life in Pakistan, her families, her childhood, her schools and the global terrorism before she was almost shot to death.

Her father is not a traditional man.  He fell in love with his future wife and got married; in a culture which did not celebrate the arrival of a girl, he gave her whole heart to his daughter Malala when she was born.   Her father is a man with a dream to educate children. His dream led the family to Mingora, Swat Valley, to build schools.  There were years of hardship around building schools in Pakistan, not to mention that the schools were for both boys and girls.   Yet, through the eyes of Malala, there is the positivity and the belief in overcoming obstacles.

As her family “financial” situation improved and the school was established, the political situation in Pakistan deteriorated as Taliban started to penetrate to the Swat valley. It started with propaganda over radio which influenced minds and provided a platform to attack non-conformist.  As the influences increased, it spread terror through physical attack and increasingly powerful militants.  The commitment and competence of Pakistan regime to protect the territory from falling to Taliban were both questionable; for years, Malala’s family has been living through wars between the Taliban and the Pakistan military; and schools were being bombed often.   As the town went from bad to worse, her family became internally displaced, like refugees.

Through the turmoil, Malala lives through her childhood, with tons of family love, friends, and her fair share of teenager worries.   Like many children, she loves learning, she is concerned about grades, she loves to be the top student in her class; she has friends, and occasional arguments with friends; she is a typical elder sister with sibling rivalries.   She has concern about her height and wish diligence could get herself an inch taller.

What is inspirational is her love of learning and her belief of education against terrorism.  Malala has pursued her education at risk of her personal safety; i am malala quoteshe relentlessly advocates for education through her blog, her speech and her bravery.  When her family became internally displaced, GiftsofBooksthe thing she missed the most was her books.  When she recovered in the hospital, she wanted her books, and she missed the school examinations.  Malala’s love of learning and school is a lesson for all the kids in many countries, where education is taken for granted.

This is a story of a girl, a family and a country through the eyes of Malala, with unusual clarity of thought, passion and strength; yet without the sophistication of premature adulthood.

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Three Years After

Three years ago, I took an early retirement.  At that time, one kid was in high school, and the other was in middle school. Three years later, I am back to work, one kid is in college and the other is in high school.

If someone toldream-quote - cs lewisd me ahead what has happened since, I probably would have no idea.  It is not that the past three years have been dramatic; just that the daily drudgery sometimes limit our imagination.

Such is that there is some satisfaction in looking back the past 3 years for experiencing different things – “retirement”; blogging, jogging 5k; meeting new friends; volunteering; working as a contractor; working in health care; working in high tech; and sending kid to college.

Inertia resists changes of course – experiencing new things is actually not always comfortable; and at times, it is uncomfortable.  Changes are our bets. On the good side, it can motivate us to stay fit both physically and mentally; a good rhythm in exercising does away my allergy for the last two years.  And I am lucky to join a company with so many smart people as well as people with passion.

I am raised in a culture that “helping others is the foundation of happiness”.  Serving on a non-profit school is both a learning experience as well as rewarding with the chance of making an impact.  Seldom do people say “volunteejourneyring is not rewarding”, yet, volunteer rate was reported to be 25.3% in US in 2013.  It is a mystery to me.

For a year or two, my daughter has pretty much only one requirement for college, other than she wants to get into a good college – she wants to go out-of-state and experiences something new.  This fall, she gave up her in-state college admission and went somewhere that took more than 5 hours of direct flight.   I wish that she will be equally successful in all of her future dreams.  For parents, seeing the kid off to college is a major milestone – our life with kid first start off as a single entity, then two entities with lots of overlap, the overlap becomes intersection and then one day, we suddenly realize our kid and us has become two separate entities, with just occasional intersection.

So that is it.  The good thing is there are still so many things around waiting to be discovered.

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