I live in a
place where month of October always ends with Halloween trick-or-treat. This type of certainty is reassuring. Children give us a deeper appreciation of the Halloween festival – from the neighbor kindness in giving-away pumpkins, to creative costume design, to the actual evening, not to mention that it announces the arrival of November with Thanksgiving and December with Christmas. These are things that bring warmth in the colder months of winter.
What can make a month long? Well, it could be visiting families, could be kids’ examinations and could be presentation to executives at work; or simply chronic symptoms, fitness or household chores. I got a dose of everything plus more. It has been a testing time physically and mentally. When it is over, it leaves with nice memories.
Visitor is a good motivator we put our house in good order. Three family members coming from afar are memorable occasions – one on business trip, two on first leisure travel after their retirement. Family gathering, at my age, is less about exotic sight-seeing, more about doing regular routines together. Well, small city busy lives – they were surprised when I asked “would you be very surprised to see each other on the same flight from Hong Kong?” They arrived on the same flight. The once-in-a-decade government shutdown derails their once-in-a-decade US plan to tour the beautiful Yellow Stone National Park. According to some survey, what the US citizens missed the most has been National Parks closure during the shutdown. This, by itself, is telling, isn’t it? Amidst the disappointment, they have been able to detour to an East Coast trip visiting New York, Boston, and Washington DC. 
Something takes up at least an hour or plus most evenings. It is for the preparation of my son for the 7th grade ABRSM piano examination. Tiring as it is, I truly appreciate how it pushes him to improve with hours of practice. To provide feedback needs attention, I am amazed how a piano piece can sound so much better with skills. It is rewarding that he feels the improvement himself and knows that the hard work pays off. My daughter takes her very first and important SAT examination early October. When the result is out, it is a pleasant surprise that her first trial has met both her and parents’ expectation. The good news is she can be more relaxed with her future attempts.
At work, preparing for executive presentation is often not about the workload, more the stress associated with everything that we do the first time. At the end, the presentation goes well.
I treasure the gatherings, the memories and the results in October, happier to say “Good-bye October”.